12/03/2025
We don’t fix anything by pretending 🌽 doesn’t exist.
We spent years acting like 🌽 is “out there,” instead of acknowledging it’s a real part of people’s er 0 tic lives.
In this conversation with Holly, we get into why ignoring desire doesn’t make it disappear it just creates more confusion, shame, and secrecy.
And when desire goes underground, it usually shows up in ways that are a lot, lot less healthy.
Listen to the episode for a real conversation we need more of.
