Tom Bruett Therapy

Tom Bruett Therapy Provide couples and individual counseling virtually for those living in California or Colorado.

Had a great time last night at the book launch event Big thanks to all who showed up and especially for having a thoug...
07/23/2025

Had a great time last night at the book launch event

Big thanks to all who showed up and especially for having a thoughtful conversation with me about gay male relationships.

Reading is resistance! What’s on your pride reading list?
06/26/2025

Reading is resistance! What’s on your pride reading list?

Excited to start this one! thanks for all your work on liberation. We need it more now than ever. ***rbooks
06/24/2025

Excited to start this one! thanks for all your work on liberation. We need it more now than ever. ***rbooks

Had a great conversation with Kealy Spring. Check it out on the podcast link in my bio. ***rtherapist
06/20/2025

Had a great conversation with Kealy Spring. Check it out on the podcast link in my bio. ***rtherapist

Calling all CO folx! I’m doing a book launch and special event at on Colfax Tuesday July 22. Link above to RSVP(which ...
06/13/2025

Calling all CO folx! I’m doing a book launch and special event at on Colfax Tuesday July 22. Link above to RSVP(which is recommended) hope to see you there!

Had a great time learning from so many powerful voices in the field of s3xuality, connecting with awesome folx, and pres...
06/08/2025

Had a great time learning from so many powerful voices in the field of s3xuality, connecting with awesome folx, and presenting on Gay/Queer Men and Differentiation. Thanks

We see you. We love you. We’ll fight this together.
05/06/2025

We see you. We love you. We’ll fight this together.

💔 Wish someone told me this 10 years ago…⁠⁠Dating as a gay man comes with its own lessons — some hard-earned. Here are 3...
05/05/2025

💔 Wish someone told me this 10 years ago…⁠
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Dating as a gay man comes with its own lessons — some hard-earned. Here are 3 truths I wish I knew sooner. If you’re tired of situationships, emotional rollercoasters, or trying to “fix” someone… this one’s for you. 👇⁠
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Slide through — and save this for when your heart needs a reminder.⁠
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Let’s talk about something people rarely talk about honestly…⁠⁠It’s time to move away from shame and start having real c...
04/28/2025

Let’s talk about something people rarely talk about honestly…⁠
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It’s time to move away from shame and start having real conversations around desire, pleasure, and choice. ⁠
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What’s one way adult content has supported your self-discovery? 👇⁠
Let’s talk pleasure without shame. 💬⁠
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One of the most freeing parts of being in a q***r relationship?⁠We’re not expected to follow the old, rigid rules.⁠We ge...
04/23/2025

One of the most freeing parts of being in a q***r relationship?⁠
We’re not expected to follow the old, rigid rules.⁠
We get to define what love, commitment, and connection look like—on our terms. 💬⁠
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This quote from my book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men says it perfectly.⁠
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If you needed permission to create a relationship that fits you, this is it. 💛⁠
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Excited to share that I’ll be presenting at the 2025 ASSECT Annual Conference in Las Vegas in June! My presentation is c...
04/18/2025

Excited to share that I’ll be presenting at the 2025 ASSECT Annual Conference in Las Vegas in June! My presentation is called: “Into? Using the art and science of differentiation to expand your work with q***r male clients” hope to see you there and my talk will also be live-streamed!

The love and affirmation you always deserved but may not have heard growing up.⁠⁠Whether you're doing the inner work or ...
04/10/2025

The love and affirmation you always deserved but may not have heard growing up.⁠
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Whether you're doing the inner work or just needed a reminder—this one's for you.⁠
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✨ Save it. Share it. Speak it to yourself today.⁠
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There are many reasons people seek therapy. Whether you’re struggling with a major life event, or challenges like depression, anxiety, addiction, or low self-esteem, together we can work toward relief and healing. My experience with psychotherapy includes work with individuals, adolescents, couples and families in a variety of settings. There are benefits to short and long-term work, depending on your goals and needs. My approach is warm and compassionate. As an integrative therapist, the sessions are tailored to the person sitting in front of me. A variety of different therapeutic orientations have influenced me, including humanistic, relational, psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral. Together we will work on creating an environment that is safe enough for you to begin your healing process. Choosing a therapist is a meaningful decision and it is important to find the right fit. Call and interview a few different professionals. You deserve a therapist that makes you feel safe and hopeful about achieving your goals.