06/02/2023
“I accept that inspiration is the ability to support one to the extent that they remember and recognize how to help themselves. I acknowledge the difference between inspiring others and the tendency to do other people’s inner work in an attempt to feel better around those I may wish to connect with on a deeper level. Whether occurring between parent and child, lovers, co-workers or friends, when not attempting to fast-track others toward their potential faster than they are able to shift, I am able to inspire others into more of their heart-centered power by the behavior I model in their presence.
While this often comes with less validation from those I desire being valued by, through the laws of unity consciousness, I am learning how to be nourished by the depth of my most authentic sharing, no matter how often or infrequently anyone else may be able to acknowledge my efforts or reciprocate with an equal amount of openness. As I learn to connect and communicate through the grace of inspired action, I may realize I’m not most often drained by how much I give and how little I receive in return. Instead, I allow myself to see perhaps more clearly than ever before, how often my expectations of others deplete me of the very life force energy that others may not have the capacity to share. This allows any degree of connection to become more authentic in nature, where I am learning to be inspired by the way I show up with others, no matter the versions of self they present in return.
In knowing it is so, I allow any pattern of expectation, resentment, over-giving, attempting to fast-track myself or others toward a higher potential too quickly, confusing the fantasy of anyone’s potential with the reality of where they’re at, as well as any tendency to take on other people’s pain as an unconscious form of empathy to be cleared out of my energy field, returned to the Source of its origin, transmuted completely, and healed to completion now.
From this moment forward, I allow inspiration to move and speak through me as I am nourished by the behavior I model, regardless of the circumstances and stages of healing others are facing. I allow myself to empathize with other people’s experiences by offering whatever degree of time and support I am able to share without overlooking my needs, needing to rescue others, or control their experiences – even when this means interacting with versions of others that feel less than the vision of connection I yearn to attract. I allow the truth of each moment to help me make empowered decisions about how I value my time without a fear of missing out, anticipating rejection, expecting abandonment, or believing I’m responsible for other people’s feelings. While this may be a new level of empowerment that can feel foreign to how I was raised or conditioned, I accept life’s invitation to help me break free by reclaiming my power and expressing it with authenticity, compassion, and grace for the liberation of all. And so I am free. And so it is.”
All for Love,
Matt Kahn
