08/22/2024
This is a great explanation of not pushing young children to do something they are developmentally not ready for.
Pressuring young children to write before their hands are developmentally ready can place undue emotional and physical stress on them.
A 2-year-old's hand is still soft and chubby, with bones that are mostly cartilage and joints that are delicate, making fine motor tasks like writing difficult and uncomfortable.
By age 4, the hand's bones are beginning to ossify, but the joints and muscles are still developing, so fine motor control is limited.
By age 7, the bones and joints are more fully developed, providing the dexterity and strength needed for writing.
By age 10, the hand has developed more precise motor control and strength, allowing for more complex and sustained writing tasks.
X-ray images of developing hands clearly show the gradual ossification of bones and the formation of joints. Forcing a young child to write before their hands are ready can lead to frustration, erode their confidence, and even cause joint strain. It’s important to allow children to engage in activities that naturally build motor skills until their hands are physically prepared for the demands of writing.
Remember, A toddler's scribble is equally valuable to an older child writing their name—they're just at different stages of development. It’s crucial to remember that earlier does not mean better. In fact, studies show that academic stress and pressure in the early years can have lasting negative effects, leading to lower academic performance later on.
Why does your toddler or preschooler need to know how to write? What’s the rush? By pushing this too early, we risk doing far more harm than good to our developing children.