Engel Marriage and Family Therapy

04/09/2026

We have a tendency be so hard on our self that we can even go into the believe that “I do not deserve” because “I’m not good enough.” Lori does a great job in reminding us of the importance of having a healthy relationship with self. The best way to genuinely love others is to learn how to love, nurture, and care for ourselves.

Self-compassion is the act of treating yourself with the same care, patience, and understanding that you would offer someone you genuinely care about. If it is so easy to give others grace, why is it so hard to allow ourselves the same? In Lori’s latest article, she reminds readers of why self-com...

03/29/2026

Never quit doing the hard work of inner healing….even if it takes a lifetime to do. It’s worth it. I promise.

Understanding our patterns can be the beginning of true healing. When we shift from trying to control outcomes to exploring our own story, transformation often follows.

If you or someone you know is looking to start their healing journey, contact our intake specialists by phone at (408) 559 - 1115 or via email at contact@cccsanjose.com.

You are not alone - we can help. 💙

02/19/2026

I wanted to share a good grief support group starting up with two great therapists leading it. They are also dear friends of mine. Please share with anyone who could use some grief support in this season of their life.

Kelli Simmerok and Diana Wu's upcoming GriefShare Support Group at Church on the Hill in San Jose starts a week from today! Hosted weekly on Wednesdays, 6:30–8:30 pm, from February 25 to May 20, 2026.

This 13-week support group is a safe, welcoming space for building community, gaining understanding, offering encouragement, and reigniting hope. Kelli and Diana will offer practical guidance and compassionate support as you navigate the difficult emotions of grief.

You don't have to walk through grief alone; to register or learn more, click this link: https://find.griefshare.org/groups/289863

02/15/2026

Happy Valentines Day to all! May you love yourself and others well today and everyday!!

At Christian Counseling Collective, we believe love is more than a romantic feeling, but a way of being that can be transformational.

Love looks like showing up for therapy even when it’s hard, offering yourself grace instead of criticism, repairing relationships with humility, allowing God’s compassion to steady your nervous system, and choosing connection over isolation.

Whether you are married, single, grieving, healing, rebuilding, or growing, you are deeply loved.

Happy Valentine’s Day from all of us at CCC! 💙

01/16/2026

This clinician is really helpful in navigating grief, whether it is a loss of job, relational loss, or a loss when someone has passed away. Here is a great article she wrote on “Anticipatory Grief.”

In Lori’s work as a therapist who specializes in grief and loss, she often encounters clients who have just learned of a horrible diagnosis - either of someone they love or of their own.  In her latest article, Lori explores how to navigate anticipatory grief with grace and offers coping

01/15/2026

One of my colleagues is providing a great workshop coming up! She made it affordable for everyone too! Hope you can join!

https://cccsanjose.com/events/healing-from-attachment-injury?fbclid=IwZnRzaAPVSntleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEefQH1fuHj7iVmo9bTXi3wuCeQ7eQpRmCMb-YA36MT68bXJJwxc06R_caRAok_aem_HBJAdLFB-VUWFNTWSCi4mQ

Back to All Events Healing from Attachment Injury: four-week virtual workshop series Thursday, February 19, 2026 6:00 PM 7:00 PM Google Calendar ICS Cost: $100 for four weeks or $30 for a single sessionThursdays from 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm: February 19th, February 26th, March 5th, and March 12th Regi...

01/01/2026

In 2026, May You be blessed with good friends, healthy habits, and a strong drive to love others well and deeply!

12/26/2025

Merry Christmas, everyone! We hope your Christmas was filled with love and glimmers that brought a smile to your face.

For those who are grieving and experiencing loss this year, extra hugs to you! Finding joy while grieving is a mind mess, especially during the holidays.

Love to all!

11/27/2025

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. May you be a light and may you be love to all you spend time with today!

11/01/2025

“Happiness is wanting what you have.”

– Fred Luskin
Forgiveness Specialist 

10/31/2025

I wanted to share this workshop coming up that one of my colleagues is leading. It is a great support in navigating challenging relationship dynamics over the holidays! We all need a little more peace this time of year.

Back to All Events Navigating Relationships During the Holidays - Two Part Virtual Educational Support Group Tuesday, November 4, 2025 6:30 PM Tuesday, November 18, 2025 8:00 PM Google Calendar ICS The Holiday Season is often filled with a multitude of emotions, stress, and uncertainty in our re...

10/31/2025

Happy Halloween Everyone!