Leslie Kays MFT

Leslie Kays MFT My clients range in age from 3 to 93. This is what I would like to do for you! Then we can continue to build upon these your strengths.

As a psychotherapist with 25 years of experience, I have helped many people navigate through difficult times in their lives, as well as heal from unhealthy relationships and move on to healthy ones. They come to me with many issues, ranging from anxiety and depression, to parenting, substance abuse, and anger management. I feel privileged to have witnessed amazing transformations as I partner with people to help create the highest and best for them. My approach is warm and supportive,with an emphasis on meeting you where you are, and creating a therapeutic plan that draws upon the strengths that become evident early in our work together. Although you may enter therapy feeling a lot of stress, it is my hope that remembering your strengths will immediately ease your anxiety. My methods are ecclectic…ranging from more cognitively based short term “solution focused” therapy to longer term “in depth” approaches. I especially love working with dreams and “active imagination”, when this is something the client would like. At this point in my life, I am especially interested in working with mature adults who are at a new crossroads in their lives..and are interested in finding and keeping healthy relationships–with family members and life partners. I am open to those who are seeking a spiritual direction in their lives, although this is not a prerequisite for working with me. Please contact me for a free extended phone consultation to see if I may be a good fit for you. At this time, I can give you more specific details about how I work. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy some of my blog posts.

Is Stress Killing Your Relationship? Why You're Not Alone
09/26/2025

Is Stress Killing Your Relationship? Why You're Not Alone

Stress. Does that word define your life right now? If so, you are not alone. Find out how stress spills into our personal lives, affecting the quality of our close relationships.

You don't really get to choose who you fall in love with. Love chooses you. - Brad Pitt
09/25/2025

You don't really get to choose who you fall in love with. Love chooses you. - Brad Pitt

We are all living within a “body” and this “body” is constantly talking to us about how we are feeling as well as how we...
09/24/2025

We are all living within a “body” and this “body” is constantly talking to us about how we are feeling as well as how we can best survive in the external world. Through our senses, for example, we know when we are too cold or too hot. We also have bodily sensations that communicate to us when there is “danger” out there in the outside world. Our nervous systems are organized to mobilize us quickly when we need to get out of a dangerous situation, or to “freeze” when this might be the safest response. Read more..…https://www.anxietytopeace.com/2023/04/what-is-your-body-trying-to-tell-you-learning-the-art-of-interoception/

7 Signs that Stress is Affecting Your Relationship
09/23/2025

7 Signs that Stress is Affecting Your Relationship

When the things you once loved about your partner are now annoying, stress may be the culprit. Here's the signs to look out for.

Don't settle for a relationship that won't let you be yourself. - Oprah
09/22/2025

Don't settle for a relationship that won't let you be yourself. - Oprah

How to recognize gaslighting and respond to it
09/19/2025

How to recognize gaslighting and respond to it

The term gets thrown around a lot, but gaslighting is a very specific form of abuse.

"Silence is a form of communication too. Sometimes less is more." - Pat Summitt
09/18/2025

"Silence is a form of communication too. Sometimes less is more." - Pat Summitt

Love and Relationship Satisfaction as a Function of Romantic Relationship Stages
09/16/2025

Love and Relationship Satisfaction as a Function of Romantic Relationship Stages

The strong influence of the components of love in the relationship satisfaction is very described in the scientific literature. The current cross-sectional study evaluated the associations between participants’ love and relationship satisfaction across different phases of a relationship. For this ...

"A loving heart is the truest wisdom.” - Charles Dickens
09/15/2025

"A loving heart is the truest wisdom.” - Charles Dickens

In all of our most important relationships, such as mother/child, intimate partner, sibling, or close friendship, there ...
09/13/2025

In all of our most important relationships, such as mother/child, intimate partner, sibling, or close friendship, there exists a certain tension. This “tension” can sometimes be framed in terms of a “power” dynamic wherein one “partner “ in the relationship may wield more power over the other. The less “powerful” partner can be seen as more “accommodating” to the wants and needs of the other. Read more... https://www.anxietytopeace.com/2023/02/clear-personal-boundariesa-necessary-ingredient-for-healthy-relationships/

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