07/12/2025
I was just thinking :
We are going through something huge right now—something that’s not just political, personal, or relational.
It’s spiritual. It’s collective. It’s a deep, messy, painful healing of the narcissistic wound.
But the truth is… healing can’t happen without awareness.
And awareness doesn’t come easy when the people or systems hurting you are charming, powerful, or “successful.” Many still don’t see what’s really going on—not because they’re stupid, but because they’re still under the spell. Often, these are folks who are:
• Narcissists themselves (whether overt or covert)
• Or deeply enmeshed with narcissists through family, marriage, or legacy ties
• Or simply not willing or able to pay attention to what’s happening
Breaking up with a narcissist—on any level—is excruciating.
It’s like losing your grip on reality, because for so long, they were the one defining it.
You don’t even have the strength to leave until you recognize how you’ve been manipulated, diminished, or used.
And sadly, as a country, we’re in that phase where many people haven’t woken up yet. They’re still defending their abuser. Still blaming the wrong people. Still stuck in the cycle.
I wish we could all grow by simply witnessing the harm being done to others.
But the truth is… many folks need to FAFO in order to feel the pain for themselves.
If you’re someone who has already walked through that fire—who’s already broken free—your clarity is medicine.
Share it with compassion. Share it with discernment. But SHARE IT!!!
This is the work of our time.
🌀 Let’s keep healing. Together.
—The Blissful Goat 🐐