Moritz Kerkmann Hood

12/28/2025

Our Darkness Retreat space in Northern California

09/11/2024

Women often feel that they are too much for wanting to improve the relationship and hold back therefore with expressing desire to their men for couples work.

The same goes for their desire.
Women clamp down on their desire around their partners and husbands. Better never say too much! He is already doing more than when he wasn’t meeting me at all. So I need to be content with the effort he is putting in now even if that’s 5 percent of what I asked for.

Now let me tell you from a male perspective what this does to us when you safe us from your desire.

It keeps me from being brilliant!

I can get lost in work and work, day in and out.
Men often don’t have the awareness that their wellbeing and connections get lost when we are swamped in our fix it, work it mindset.

It is a blessing when my wife expresses that she desires me to sit down for dinner and take my time and place my attention on her.
Even if that might sting like an inconvenience in the face of the workload.

I get unbalanced and my woman’s desire has the power to pull me back into balance.

If she withholds because she doesn’t want to inconvenience me too much, I am lost!

Your desire as a woman is a huge contribution to a families and relationships well being!
Without your desire, we run cotton dry!

We need your desire even if we are at first grumpy about the changes we need to make!

What’s even worse than feeling grumpy is the resentment we feel when she is not expressing herself. And we have no idea why the heck she is grumpy then.

The reason why so many men are checked out in their relationships and are not showing up fully is because you have not expressed your desire.
They need that wake-up slap of desire.

Get uncomfortable, ask them for what you want, they can handle it. Stop packing your man in boubble wrap!

09/08/2024

There is three stages in a man’s relationship life.

Wanting a relationship and highly willing to grow and engage.

Having a relationship, disengaging in growth and being comfortable instead. justifying that by saying; it’s fine as it is. I feel fine.

Losing the relationship and realising that fine was not their truth of how they actually wanted to show up.

A common side effect of men who say they feel “fine” is jealousy and envy.
And that is good, because they point you to the uncomfortable truth of what you actually want that would have you engage and turn on in your relationship.

Most men, when I ask them if they like to join the mensgroup to ignite their relationship and become better intimate leaders say; my relationship is fine.

09/05/2024

When men get jealous or upset about what She is doing,
Its always a communication she is attempting

Women are masters in inflict feelings into men.
Women think its effective but most of the time its lost in translation and I see many relationships break apart because of this.

When she tells you how good she is treated by another man,
She is telling you for a reason.

When she said something that hurts your feelings, she knew it would hurt but she did tell you for a reason.

We men, think the intent is malicious but its not.
If the intent was Selfish, she would not bother with you but just move on to that other man.

She is telling you because she is trying to wake you up to something
The intention is generous, the way she delivers may be selfish.

In my work I help couples change the delivery but the intention is Brilliant.

What she is trying to wake you up to,
Is how you show up in relationship with her.

Again, its not about her, its not selfish
But she is guiding you to how she needs you to show up for her to open

Trust me, you want what she is guiding you towards.
In your safe haven of demanding her to meet you, there is no seggs, there is no fire, there is no erotic pleasure available.

She is right, you need to rise to her

09/04/2024

Intimate Leadership Mensgroup this Sunday!

THIS IS A PLACE TO LEARN HOW TO TRANSFORM YOUR PARTNERSHIP.

I ALSO CALL IT EROTIC LEADERSHIP. YOU WILL LEARN ABOUT BOUNDARIES THAT REALLY WORK AND SKILLS TO PE*****TE YOUR WOMAN WITH YOUR ATTENTION.

Free Trial Call

and then $35 per person per month.

with access to training videos and a monthly group Coaching call.

09/04/2024

Intimate Leadership Mensgroup this Sunday!

This is a place to learn how to transform your partnership.
I also call it erotic leadership. You will learn about boundaries that really work and skills to pe*****te your woman with your attention.

$35 per person per month.
with access to training videos and a monthly group Coaching call.

09/04/2024

Women often don’t tell you what they want, they make you feel it. Especially when you are sensitive at heart. This can be highly confusing and lead you to conflict.

For example; if your d~ gets soft when you are in bed with her, consider that as her telling you that her desire is not jet in*******se. Your frustration and shame that you are not performing is entirely unnecessary when you understand that.

When you realise this, you can access more powerful ways of playing with her desire.

Come learn more this Sunday intimate leadership.

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09/03/2024

Women out there give up Seggs because they don’t know what good d~ is! I am serious!

Most men, once inter course is available, loose their ability to be connected and stay present with their partner. Women hate that and shut their desire for it down.

Good D. Is rare! The kind of d~ where she feels blown open and drops into her involuntary. Where she surrenders to you.

I teach men how to do that. trust me it starts way way way before you even touch her sheets. And what can be available to you is actually going to touch what you been craving.

This Sunday I lead a mensgroup on erotic and intimate leadership. You should come.

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08/26/2024

Intimate Leadership Mensgroup

We meet again September 8th and we have a few spots open

In this group you learn Relationship skills like:

✨How to Deal with Complaints?
🔥How turn your Partner on so She innitiates more S*x
✨How to Realy stand up for your Self in your Life!
🔥How to feel more space, Harmony and overall energy in your ✨daily experience
🔥How to End conflict
✨have functional Boundaries
🔥Erotic Leadership

Get access to a growing Library of previous Course lessons
Join the community of men

price is $35 per man

https://www.awakened-intimacy.com/mensgroup

Become the Leader Your Woman Loves to Surrender to!

08/02/2024

Wich cover do you like better?

02/21/2024

06/10/2023

The other day my little guy said to me; I love mama,
I don’t love you, I want a different papa.

This is something that cuts really hard. And I want to share a bit about what I will teach in my energy mastery workshop for men this weekend.

There is a response from my side where I immediately try to tell myself that I am a good dad, I am loved, I am still better than bla bla…

And I caught that and actually felt the weight of what my kid was saying.

I really have to make an effort there to not subtly punish him by retracting my love or to not make him somehow wrong for what he said.
And sure there is a way to stay honest with him that what I feel is hurt and that’s ok.

But I want to focus on my own process in this text.
And that is that once he slept I was awake for a long time and I hurt badly.

Now all the above is a way for me as a man to hold it together and keep my “good energy” from taking a dip into the down.

And when I allow myself to feel that weight of his communication I land in a heavy pit of not good, unloved, useless, less than…

And this is very important.
Because by doing so I can acknowledge that I was so busy lately that I neglected the little guy.

And I expect him to love me when really I wasn’t loving him.

It’s painful to acknowledge that I demand a toddler to love me.

It’s a sign that I have fallen out of connection with my own love. When I am in love, I serve no matter what is returned.

So this little guy took a blade to my heart and told me that he does not love me because that’s how he perceives the truth of the reflection that he wasn’t getting any love from me.

This is a hard spot to acknowledge for me.
It takes me down and it’s humbling and it takes energy to return to that clarity that loves without expecting a return.

And I have to love all that about myself which I am now, the “ugly” truth of who I am when I am in the down, empty and greedy. Because also that is who I am.

Are you a dad and you want to manage your energy better? Say hi!