01/30/2026
In this compassionate solo episode, I explore the rising trend of a "Soft January" and validates those who feel exhausted by the traditional "New Year, New Me" pressure.
I dig deep into the psychology of perfectionism and people-pleasing,
explaining why the failure of rigid resolutions often feels like a personal character flaw rather than a flaw in the system itself.
I offer a fresh perspective on motivation, challenging listeners to separate their self-worth from their productivity and to view "good enough"not as settling, but as a profound act of self-trust and resilience.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- The meaning behind the "Soft January"trend and why it’s gaining traction.
- Why high-functioning perfectionists are most at risk for the "New Year' Crash".
- The difference between feeling "inspired" versus feeling "evaluated"by your goals.
- How to identify "Conditional Worth" and stop tying your value to your output.
- Why "good enough" is actually a healthier, more sustainable form of discipline.
Listen here: https://behindthebitepodcast.com/if-january-feels-heavy-this-episode-is-for-you-ep-271/