09/11/2025
🇺🇸Today is a day of remembrance - and can be tough for some parents to navigate conversations with their children about what happened this day, 24 years ago. There's no one-size fits all, but here is some guidance we hope is helpful for families:
Ground rules (for any age):
• Start by asking what they’ve heard; correct gently with simple facts. 🗣️
• Share calm, age-appropriate info; avoid graphic details and limit media exposure. 📺🚫
• Reassure safety (who keeps us safe), keep routines, and invite questions over time. 🛡️⏰
• Validate feelings; there’s no “right” way to feel. 💛
Ages 3–6 (preschool/early school):
Keep it simple: “Something very sad happened a long time ago. Helpers kept people safe, and many people care for us now.” Focus on safety, helpers, and love. 👮♀️👩⚕️
Ages 7–10 (elementary):
Offer brief facts, where/when it happened, and what changed to keep people safer (airports, first responders). Invite questions; check in again later. 🗺️ 👩🚒
Ages 11–13 (middle school):
Acknowledge mixed feelings; practice media literacy (talk about reliable sources), and discuss healthy coping (talking, drawing, movement, community). 📚📵🏃♂️
Ages 14–18 (teens):
Invite deeper conversation - history, civic empathy, and how to honor others through service. Encourage breaks from distressing content and peer-support that’s kind and factual. 🕯️🤝 🎓
When to check in with us or a therapist:
If worries persist >2–4 weeks, or you notice nightmares, school avoidance, big behavior changes, or physical complaints without a cause - reach out. We’ll help you plan next steps. 🩺 💬
Today and always, we remember - the lives lost, the heroes who served, and the communities that came together. 🗽🇺🇸
We're here for you when you need us.
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Sources: American Academy of Pediatrics Healthy Children