Lotus Counseling Services, PLLC

Lotus Counseling Services,  PLLC We're located upstairs in Ammons Chiropractic. Are you feeling stressed, overwhelmed with life, exhausted, anxious, or depressed?

Have you experienced a stressful or traumatic life event? Perhaps you struggle with a chronic illness. Maybe you struggle with a difficult child or teen. Or maybe your partner has been unfaithful. Are you tired of feeling isolated and hopeless? You want- no, you need- things to change, but you don’t where to begin. Asking for help can be one of the most difficulty things to do, but I would be honored to help you discover your inner strength and begin your journey to healing and being who you are meant to be. I have received training in Interpersonal and Social Rhythm Therapy (IPSRT) for managing bipolar disorders as well as certification as a clinical trauma professional. A nationally certified counselor, I am also a member of LPC Association of NC and the International Association of Trauma Professionals (IATP). I am passionate about helping people triumph over trauma, learn mindfulness-based practices to reduce stress and manage anxiety, improve self-esteem, understand the relationship among our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors (CBT) and learn to tolerate distress in their lives.

05/09/2025

Just finished up a 3-day conference, The 2025 Women's Recovery Conference offered by MAHEC. I learned so much from addiction and recovery experts in our state. So many misconceptions abound. I am still processing a lot of the information but hope to share some of the takeaways I learned and insight I gained over the coming days. Hats off to MAHEC. You did a phenomenal job!

04/28/2025

In my practice, I take a "bottom-up approach" which means I address physiological and sensory experiences before engaging with cognitive and emotional processing. I focus on your body's responses to stress and trauma to help you regulate your nervous system and promote a sense of safety and stability. This approach is especially helpful if you struggle with regulating your emotions or if you have experienced trauma. This approach can help to build a stronger foundation for healing.
The bottom up approach emphasizes the body's physical sensations and how they relate to emotions and trauma because trauma can be stored in the body, affecting physiological responses and emotional regulation. It also addresses underlying physiological dysregulation, such as fight-or-flight responses, through techniques like mindfulness, breathwork, and somatic exercises.

By addressing the body first, the bottom-up approach creates a more stable and grounded foundation for you to engage in other forms of therapy, such as cognitive processing, cognitive behavioral therapy and more insight oriented therapy.
My approaches are trauma-informed, and prioritize safety, trust, and client-clinician "fit" to addressing trauma-related issues. Some of the techniques I use in bottom-up therapy include grounding exercises, somatic experiencing informed techniques, Subtle yoga techniques, breathwork, and vagus nerve/bilateral stimulation.
I believe the mind and body are connected, and we heal from the "bottom up," starting with the physiological and sensory aspects before moving to the cognitive and emotional processing aspect of therapy. For more information or to schedule a consultation, call me at 919-228-8217 or email me at cindy@lotuscounselingservicespllc.com.

04/11/2025
02/02/2025

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When texting someone with cancer, focus on expressing your support, concern, and willingness to listen, saying things like: "Thinking of you and sending positive vibes,"
"I'm here for you if you need to talk,"
"I'm so sorry you're going through this,"
"Let me know if there's anything I can do to help," or
"You're incredibly strong, and I'm here to support you.".

Key points to remember:
*Validate their feelings:
*Acknowledge the difficulty of their situation by saying "I can't imagine what you're going through" or
"This must be a tough time."

*Offer specific support:
Instead of just saying "let me know if you need anything," suggest concrete actions like "Can I bring you a meal?" or "Do you need a ride to your appointment?"
*Avoid clichΓ©s:
Phrases like "fight this battle" or "you're going to be fine" can feel insensitive; focus on genuine support and understanding.
*Keep it simple and sincere:
Sometimes a simple "thinking of you" or "I care about you" can be the most meaningful message.

Example texts:
"Sending you lots of love and strength during this challenging time."
"I'm here to listen if you want to talk about anything, no matter what."
"Thinking of you today and wishing you all the best with your treatment."
"I'm so proud of your resilience and courage."
"Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need anything at all."

What to say (and not say) when someone tells you they have cancer
* I care for you and I'm here for you.
* If you feel like talking I'm here to listen.
* Many people in a situation like yours would...

Sources:
Cancer Council Victoria
What to Say to Someone Who Has Cancer
Oct 10, 2023 β€” The most important thing you can do is show your interest and concern by your expression of encouragement, and/or you ...
AI
American Cancer Society
"The Best (and Worst) Ways to Support a Friend With a Serious Illness"
Northwestern Medicine
"It's good to offer concrete and practical ways to help, including taking them to their medical appointments, helping them get their medication, etc.."

This is for informational purposes only. For medical advice or diagnosis, consult a professional. Generative AI is experimental.

Excellent article on emotional responses to natural disasters
10/03/2024

Excellent article on emotional responses to natural disasters

Understanding the emotions and normal responses that follow a disaster or other traumatic event can help you cope with your feelings, thoughts, and behaviors.

08/16/2024

Every day over 300 people die from overdoses. August 31st is International Overdose Awareness Day, the world's largest annual campaign t end overdoses. It's a day to remember those we have lost to an overdose, to acknowledge the grief of the family and friends left behind, and to renew our commitment to end overdose and related harm. International Overdose Awareness Day was established in 2001 to raise awareness about overdose and tothen the stigma of drug related deaths. The color purple has been adopted to represent this day. As a symbol of support, I encourage you to wear the color purple or wear a purple ribbon.
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08/07/2024

Detaching with love means understanding that it's not always helpful to care for someone else, but it doesn't mean you need to cut yourself off from them. Here are some tips for detaching with love:
Set boundaries: Set healthy boundaries and accept that you can't control others' behavior.
Allow your feelings: Acknowledge your feelings without dismissing them, and remember that they are valid.
Focus on what you can control: Put your energy into yourself instead of trying to control others, and you'll be better able to make decisions about the relationship.
Practice mindfulness: Allow and accept reality, and practice compassion for the other person.
Meditate: Meditation can help your mind release thought patterns that aren't serving you.
Take a break: You can step away from social media or an unproductive argument for a period of time.

08/01/2024

You are not your lowest moment..

07/05/2024

A good cry can help by releasing stress energy and increasing oxytocin and endorphins.
Emotional tears also remove cortisol and the hormone prolactin from the body. Our prior research showed cortisol and prolactin were associated with depression, anxiety and hostility.

Source: theconversation,com

So true!
07/03/2024

So true!

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