Changing Cycles Counseling

Changing Cycles Counseling Breaking Generational Cycles
Couples, Family, and Individual Therapy
LMFT #143214

04/10/2026

Continuing to give “just one more chance” to people who repeatedly cross your boundaries isn’t
actually moving you closer to emotionally safe relationships, friend.
I say this with love, and from experience working with clients navigating friendship betrayal, exclusion, gossip, and repeated disappointment.
Here’s the truth most people don’t want to hear:
Giving more opportunities to someone who has already shown you inconsistency doesn’t create
loyalty—it creates confusion.
It keeps you stuck in:
🌱over-explaining your feelings
🌱minimizing what hurt actually happened
🌱hoping effort will eventually become reciprocity
🌱questioning your own intuition instead of their behavior
💔 And the hardest part?
You start calling it “being understanding” when really, it’s self-abandonment.
What actually creates change is not more chances, it’s clear patterns, clear boundaries, and consistent follow-through on what you allow in your life.
Emotionally safe friendships are not built on proving your worth to people who repeatedly miss it.
They are built on mutual respect being non-negotiable. DM me the word “BOUNDARIES” if it’s time to stop over-giving in friendships and start building relationships that actually feel safe and mutual.

Healing after betrayal isn’t just about “moving on.” It’s about understanding what happened, reconnecting with yourself,...
04/10/2026

Healing after betrayal isn’t just about “moving on.” It’s about understanding what happened, reconnecting with yourself, and deciding what you truly want next. ❤️

I work with individuals and couples navigating:
✨ Infidelity and betrayal
✨ Feeling stuck after choosing to stay
✨ Repeating patterns you don’t fully understand
✨ Trust wounds rooted in childhood

Whether you were hurt, did the hurting, or are still trying to make sense of it all, there is space for you here.

My approach is honest, compassionate, and focused on real change, not perfection.

✔️ Individual Therapy
✔️ Couples Therapy
✔️ Discernment Counseling

📍 Virtual sessions in CA & CO

If you’re ready to explore what healing could look like for you, I’m here.

04/09/2026

I see it ALL the time. No names mentioned.
People wondering why betrayal feels “normal” to them, or why they keep ending up in the same
relationship patterns, even when they swore they wouldn’t.
And it’s not random. It’s learned
Save this for the next time you catch yourself questioning your intuition in
relationships, especially when betrayal starts to feel “familiar” instead of concerning.




Agree or disagree? Let me know in the comments. Follow for more!
04/07/2026

Agree or disagree? Let me know in the comments. Follow for more!

04/06/2026

I've worked with many couples trying to repair their relationship after infidelity and this comes up
every. single. time. Once you see it, it explains everything.
If this just resonated with you, save it and share it with someone who may need support.

04/05/2026

They thought closure would come from answers… from conversations… from them.
But healing didn’t start until they chose themselves instead.
You don’t need every detail to move on. You need safety, clarity, and self-trust.

Personally, I’m learning what it means to rebuild and stay rooted in myself, even when life shifts in ways I didn’t choo...
04/05/2026

Personally, I’m learning what it means to rebuild and stay rooted in myself, even when life shifts in ways I didn’t choose. Living in El Salvador now, while being directly impacted by harmful U.S. immigration policies, has brought both grief and clarity about home, identity, and resilience.

Professionally, I continue to show up as a therapist with deep care and commitment, holding space for my clients across borders in California and Colorado. Even at a distance, the work remains intimate, human, and real. This experience has only deepened my belief that healing doesn’t belong to one place, it travels with us, adapts, and persists.

I’m still here, growing, practicing, and connected.

04/04/2026

Canta y Sana Series #1
El engaño no fue un accidente… fue una decisión. Y elegirte a ti también lo es.

Growing up in a home where infidelity was present doesn’t just stay in the past, it quietly shapes how trust, love, and ...
04/03/2026

Growing up in a home where infidelity was present doesn’t just stay in the past, it quietly shapes how trust, love, and safety are understood.
Message the word READY for more information about my services and how to begin.

04/02/2026

Not “just move on” or “forgive to heal.”
DM me the word HEAL and I’ll send you details on how we can work together 🤍

04/01/2026

● They took their pain seriously instead of minimizing it
(no more “maybe I’m overreacting”)
● They stopped chasing answers they were never going to get
and focused on what they needed to feel safe
● They set boundaries early, even when it felt uncomfortable
(not waiting to see if things would magically change)
● They focused on self-trust over partner-trust (because healing isn’t about controlling someone else)
● They got support instead of isolating or trying to be “strong” alone
● And most importantly…
they stopped abandoning themselves to keep the relationship.

Closure isn’t something they give you.It’s something you stop waiting for.Because no answer will feel good enough.No exp...
03/28/2026

Closure isn’t something they give you.

It’s something you stop waiting for.

Because no answer will feel good enough.

No explanation will undo it.
No apology will match the damage.

And the longer you wait for the “right” ending…

the longer you stay tied to the story.

Closure happens the moment you decide:

“I don’t need to understand this fully
to stop carrying it.”

That’s when things start to move.


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Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 11am - 7pm
Saturday 9am - 5pm

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