Neil D Brown

09/18/2025

Have you ever sent your teenager to counseling and suddenly found yourself undermined by their advice? Well, it’s more common than you think and we’ll talk about how that happens in the podcast, The Therapist Says I Need to Back Off.

Discover common teen therapy mistakes in this podcast. Learn why telling parents to ‘back off’ can backfire and how to navigate teen independence responsibly

09/17/2025

Curious about my Ending the Parent-Teen Control Battle Course? See link in comments to learn more 👇

"Ending The Parent-Teen Control Battle book and course are unique standalone products. I was concerned the course would just be a condensed version of the book, but it wasn't. The course contained additional material beyond the book, and most importantly, it helped me apply the concepts in the book through excellent self-reflective worksheets."

09/12/2025

Let’s raise children and teenagers who are good arguers, who can present their thoughts & feelings and know that adults respect what they are saying, and are willing to listen and respect adult thoughts and feelings.

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09/08/2025

You're a better parent than you think! When you stand up for your beliefs and values and not give in to peer pressure, you’re setting a great example. Being a role model to your teen gives them lessons that they can learn from. So no arguing, staying positive, validating their feelings, and of course, earning privileges with responsible and cooperative behavior is the path forward.

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09/05/2025

Struggling with parenting teens? You’re not alone! Sign up for Neil’s Healthy Family Connections newsletter and get expert tips to end parent-teen control battles. Discover actionable strategies, free resources, and insights from Neil’s acclaimed course and podcast to foster trust, respect, and a thriving family life. Visit neildbrown.com/newsletter-signup to join today!

08/18/2025

Parents who have come to hope their teenager meets only minimal standards are inviting ongoing problems that can have lifelong consequences. Read more...

Learn why low standards harm teens and how parenting teen standards with character-focused guidance boosts responsibility.

08/16/2025

For families raising children and teens to thrive, there needs to be a structure within which kids can grow. But what if neither parent is comfortable setting limits?

What if Neither Parent Is Comfortable Enforcing Limits? This is known as the Double Softy Syndrome. Psychotherapist Neil D Brown offers a solution for parents of teenagers

08/15/2025

What if you could replace arguments with understanding? Neil D. Brown, LCSW, has helped thousands of parents navigate the challenges of raising teens with his proven methods. Neil's Healthy Family Connections newsletter delivers free, expert advice to help you:

☑️Empower your teen to make better choices
☑️End draining control battles
☑️Feel confident as a parent

Sign up now and start building a stronger, happier family. Link in comments below ⬇️

08/14/2025

This is a situation I’ve dealt with fairly commonly over the years: how to respond to a teenager who is arguing without just shutting them down and not getting drawn into an argument.

Arguing with your kid is a great way to slip into or maintain a Control Battle. Read more about What to Do When Your Teenager Is Better at Arguing Than You

08/06/2025

The Ending the Parent-Teen Control Battle Course by Neil D. Brown is an online program designed to help parents and professionals navigate challenging parent-teen dynamics.

The course teaches you how to build trust, reduce conflict, and empower your teen — for less than the cost of one therapy session!

Learn more at neildbrown.com/parent-teen-control-battle-course

08/04/2025

Struggling with shame or self-doubt in your family? You’re not alone — it can pass down through generations. Discover expert parenting tips to break the cycle of shame in your family and build confidence in your kids. Read Neil’s article for practical steps to create a healthier, happier family dynamic!

Learn how to break the cycle of shame in your family with expert parenting tips. Discover ways to heal self-doubt and foster confidence in your kids and teens.

08/03/2025

Parenting teens can feel like a battle, but it doesn’t have to be. Instead of trying to “fix” them, empower them with guidance, empathy, and trust.

Neil shares how to ditch control battles and build stronger connections with your teen. Check out these insights at neildbrown.com/parenting/your-teenager-is-not-a-problem-to-be-solved