Harvey Center for Relationships

Harvey Center for Relationships What we seek in our partner is connection. Deep, relaxed, secure connection is the springboard to passion.

We help couples re-connect and stay connected by enhancing the positive, eliminating the negative and becoming each other's advocate. As Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists and certified Imago Relationship Therapists, we have helped hundreds of couples turn their marriage around and achieve lasting romance. Duane was trained by Harville Hendrix (author of Getting the Love You Want) in 1991. Ad

ditionally, Thea is a certified Kundalini yoga and meditation teacher. Married for over ten years, we practice together out of our home a few blocks up from the beach in beautiful Santa Monica. Every day we embody the relationship principals that we advocate for our clients.

The Frick and Carlyle Hotel - A date steeped in timeless romance: we wandered the gilded halls of the newly renovated Fr...
07/26/2025

The Frick and Carlyle Hotel - A date steeped in timeless romance: we wandered the gilded halls of the newly renovated Frick, lost in old-world masterpieces, followed by an indulgent, dreamy lunch at the Carlyle Hotel in Bemelmans Bar - named after Ludwig Bemelmans, the artist and author of the Madeline children’s books (my favorite), who adorned the legendary walls of the piano bar with whimsical murals of Central Park. From golden frames to white tablecloths, New York reminded us that art and love never go out of style.

Where are you headed for your next date? 

We made it to Round 3!Thank you so much for your votes and support — it means the world to us. You can keep voting once ...
07/19/2025

We made it to Round 3!

Thank you so much for your votes and support — it means the world to us. You can keep voting once every 24 hours!

The ocean has always been part of our love story. One of our first dates was a bike ride along the Pacific, ending on the beach where Duane read me Neruda’s poetry. That’s why it’s especially meaningful that this contest supports Oceana, an organization dedicated to protecting our world’s oceans.
If you care about clean oceans and preserving marine life, please consider making a donation. Click the link in mybio to vote.
And thank you again for being part of this journey with us. 💙🌊

🗽  *xnyc : A Playful, Provocative NYC Experience 🖤As a s*x therapist, I had to investigate the Museum of S*x in NYC, one...
07/12/2025

🗽 *xnyc : A Playful, Provocative NYC Experience 🖤
As a s*x therapist, I had to investigate the Museum of S*x in NYC, one-of-a-kind cultural gem exposing the history and evolution of human s*xuality. Located at 233 Fifth Ave, this adults-only spot is both educational and wildly entertaining.
Highlights include:
✨ Higher Love Exhibit: Dive into the psychedelic roots of modern s*xuality.
🎪 The S*xual History of the Carnival: Uncover the erotic origins of carnival traditions.
🎨 Super Funland: An immersive erotic carnival with interactive games and slide.
Whether you’re curious, open-minded, or just want a fun date idea, the Museum of S*x blends scholarship with playful discovery — perfect for couples or anyone 18+. Duane and I are still trying to figure out if we were suppose to eat the VIP gummies before or after our visit.
🕒 Plan for 1–2 hours to explore it all. Admission ranges from $29–$42. Open every day, with extended hours on weekends.
Would you dare to visit? 😏
*x *xtherapy

Date in NYC. Researched the most romantic spots for a drink and discovered Ophelia — a stylish rooftop cocktail lounge a...
07/09/2025

Date in NYC. Researched the most romantic spots for a drink and discovered Ophelia — a stylish rooftop cocktail lounge atop the historic Beekman Tower on Manhattan’s Eastside — pure magic.
Relationship challenge: Google romantic spots and make a date. ❤️ What’s your favorite date spot?

I’m delighted to share my latest article in the  , “S*xual Fantasies in Couples Therapy: The Art of Encouraging the Erot...
07/02/2024

I’m delighted to share my latest article in the , “S*xual Fantasies in Couples Therapy: The Art of Encouraging the Erotic Imagination.” 🌹✨

In this piece, I delve into how sharing and embracing our fantasies can significantly enhance intimacy and connection. By incorporating our imaginations, couples can explore new dimensions of their relationships and expand their eroticism.

This article offers valuable insights and practical tips for every couple seeking to build stronger, more passionate bonds. I can’t wait to hear your thoughts and experiences! 👉Link in bio!

🌟 This weekend, Harvey Center for Relationships came together for an inspiring retreat! 🌟 As actual family members, we b...
05/28/2024

🌟 This weekend, Harvey Center for Relationships came together for an inspiring retreat! 🌟 As actual family members, we bring a unique bond and understanding to our practice. We shared insights and best practices to better support couples and individuals on their journey to stronger, healthier relationships. 💕✨

💗 A heartfelt thank you to First5 Ministry for the opportunity to speak about the profound topic of intimacy in marriage...
05/21/2024

💗 A heartfelt thank you to First5 Ministry for the opportunity to speak about the profound topic of intimacy in marriage at St. Monica’s. S*x consistently ranks as one of the top two reasons why couples fight. It’s an important part of marriage, though it’s often considered taboo and rarely discussed. It was an honor to share insights and engage in meaningful conversations with such warm, thoughtful, and motivated couples! Let’s continue the conversations for better relationships! 💗

So excited for my article on s*xual fantasies to come out in the  this summer! 🌟 In the meanwhile learn more about psych...
05/15/2024

So excited for my article on s*xual fantasies to come out in the this summer! 🌟 In the meanwhile learn more about psychedelic-assisted healing. Check out article on how microdosing improved her relationship with her husband. Or piece on working with couples using ketamine. These innovative approaches are helping couples heal and grow closer together. ⚡️❤️⚡️

📚  "Race Rules: What Your Black Friend Won't Tell You" is an essential book by Fatimah Gilliam, a friend and fellow Well...
02/08/2024

📚 "Race Rules: What Your Black Friend Won't Tell You" is an essential book by Fatimah Gilliam, a friend and fellow Wellesley College alum. This book challenges us to confront our biases and assumptions about race and privilege while providing valuable insights into fostering inclusivity and racial justice. Highly recommend adding this to your reading list! 🌟📖

It was a delight representing Modern S*x Therapy Institutes with co-owner & director Rachel Needle at   conference
12/18/2023

It was a delight representing Modern S*x Therapy Institutes with co-owner & director Rachel Needle at conference

🎉 Exciting News! 🎉Our Embodied Couples Practices class is now AVAILABLE! 🚀 Dive into a three-hour journey of mind-body c...
11/11/2023

🎉 Exciting News! 🎉

Our Embodied Couples Practices class is now AVAILABLE! 🚀 Dive into a three-hour journey of mind-body connection, Imago and s*x therapy integration, and transformative practices for closeness. 💖 Elevate your connection with partner yoga, breathwork, and guided touch meditations. No experience required—start your journey today! Click link in bio ! 🌈

Duane and I are excited to host a three-hour webinar introducing embodied couples practices with Imago Relationships Nor...
10/26/2023

Duane and I are excited to host a three-hour webinar introducing embodied couples practices with Imago Relationships North America and Imago Relationships. We will present a variety of clinical interventions, including partner yoga, breathwork, and guided touch meditations, that help couples process difficult emotions, develop greater empathy, and deepen their physical and emotional connection. https://www.imagorelationshipswork.com/training-webinars/43-imagoinsights-education/45-webinars/217-embodied-couples-practices

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Tuesday 9am - 9pm
Wednesday 9am - 9pm
Thursday 9am - 9pm
Friday 9am - 12pm

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