02/11/2025
Ding 💥 Ding 🛎️ Ding 🎯
There is an epidemic of NOT sitting. Not staying. And it’s not our fault. We didn’t learn how. We likely didn’t have someone by our side to help normalize it when we were flooded with emotions, overwhelmed and scared of the process.
In fact our culture glamorizes / shows us a lot more avoidance of what is.
We likely felt shame for not knowing how to live through and sit with hard moments. We likely judged ourselves and compared ourself to others — who seemed to do it better, or have less intense ups and downs.
The shame and judgement became patterns. And that made it harder and harder to sit with it - because now we must sit with shame and judgement as well. They are invited to the table.
There is an invitation that many of us miss to sit with contentment, love, pride, awe, compassion, gratitude and joy as well. Especially in recent years, there’s an energy that beckons us to record the moment, share it, comment on it. Do it for the gram, lol.
When we sit with it — with ALL of it, we can more fully feel it. The experience of feeling is healing and expansive. It strengthens us and makes more room for MORE and whatever is next.
💚 I spend much of my day with clients sitting with it.
And, wowwwww what a dynamic encounter of healing for us all.