01/11/2026
Are you putting off a medical test because you are scared of what it might show? ๐ฉบ๐
You are not alone.
Several years ago, โSarahโ came to see me. She was terrified of doctors. Both of her parents had gone through serious medical trauma, and she was sure that if she ever had testing, she would hear the worst news.
Together, we gently worked through her fear and PTSD from her parentsโ experiences. A few months later, she was diagnosed with an early form of breast cancer.
Because she had faced her fear, she was able to get the right tests, catch it early, and save her life.
Medical fear is incredibly common. It can sound like:
๐น โI do not want to know.โ
๐น โWhat if it is something terrible?โ
๐น โI cannot handle another bad thing.โ
The more we avoid what frightens us, the more powerful fear becomes. When we face it with compassion and support, we create space for healing.
Here are a few simple practices I use with my patients:
โจ Mindful breathing
Try this before an appointment or test:
Inhale for 4 counts.
Hold for 4 counts.
Exhale slowly for 6 counts.
Repeat for a few minutes. This helps calm your nervous system and bring you back into your body.
โจ Gentle awareness
Name what you are feeling. โI am scared right now.โ Then add, โand I am still safe in this moment.โ
โจ Information as medicine
Getting the right tests is not about inviting bad news. It is about giving yourself clarity, options, and a path forward. Information plus compassion creates a foundation of safety, hope, and empowerment.
Facing fear does not mean it disappears. It means you are no longer facing it alone. ๐
๐ I recorded a special video to walk you through this more deeply:
โHow to Deal with Medical Fearโ | Dr. Shiroko Sokitch
Watch here: https://youtu.be/LlMPmYEjDMc
Save this for your next appointment, and share it with someone who is avoiding important tests because they are scared.
๐ฌ I would love to hear from you:
What helps you feel calmer before a medical visit?