12/09/2025
Can we just for a second talk about how empowering births can occur anywhere? Obviously we love being home, we are homebirth midwives after all. But this last week we attended two hospital births, one planned, one a change of plans. And both? Incredible, empowering, earth shattering, brought tears to my eyes. One was very physiological, no interventions, hardly any staff ever, they even let me catch knowing I’m a homebirth midwife. The other, utilized tools that were needed, made hard but correct choices, fought with all their might, and had a beautiful va**nal birth right as things were looking like they were turning a different corner. Both brought tears to my eyes, gave me the feels, empowered the women who were birthing, and changed the lives of everyone in the room. Both had much if not all of their birth plans honored. Both lucked out on really incredible nursing staff and midwives who worked with us rather than against us. And I know, I do KNOW that midwife/doula presence and lucking out with incredible hospital providers were two keys to the beauty and success here. But I had to share, because it breaks my heart when a hospital transfer is called a “failure”, neither of these births were failures, they were just as big of a win as other homebirths I’ve been a part of. And why? Why were they so incredible? Because they left two mothers and empowered. In very different ways and on very different paths, but empowered nonetheless. And when it comes down to the nitty gritty, empowered births are what we really are all about. Birth always has its own path and plan, and it is a success when those in our care can walk that path any direction it takes and make to to their baby feeling empowered and cared for the entire way. What a gift it is to us to see that come to fruition even in spaces where some don’t think it to be possible.