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Tone is the difference between, “we’re talking” and “we’re fighting!”We have a choice in how we deliver our message.Choo...
01/26/2026

Tone is the difference between, “we’re talking” and “we’re fighting!”

We have a choice in how we deliver our message.

Choose a connecting and collaborative tone and you will be a lot less likely to be met with a defensive reaction.





01/20/2026

Conflict is not the enemy, lack of repair is.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

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This quote still hits because it tells the truth we often avoid:
we can’t heal a world that’s hurting by repeating the s...
01/19/2026

This quote still hits because it tells the truth we often avoid:
we can’t heal a world that’s hurting by repeating the same cycle that broke it.

Revenge feels powerful in the moment.

Retaliation feels justified.

Aggression can feel like protection.

But none of those things create peace… they only create more conflict.

Evolution looks like courage.

It looks like restraint.

It looks like choosing repair over punishment, accountability over domination, and humanity over being “right.”

In our homes, our relationships, our communities, and our world…

the future depends on our ability to interrupt the cycle. 🤍


 
 
 
 


01/19/2026

Here are the top 10 annoyances in dating that I most commonly see when talking to clients.

Early and calm communication can help distinguish between quirks and dealbreakers.

Get curious!!

Ask good questions…and then watch and listen.

People will show you who they are, are you paying attention?

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

*xologist
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So many conflicts turn into a battle for who’s right instead of a conversation about what’s actually happening.When the ...
01/13/2026

So many conflicts turn into a battle for who’s right instead of a conversation about what’s actually happening.

When the goal becomes winning the argument, the cost is usually connection, safety, and trust.

And no one truly wins when the relationship feels less secure afterward.

Real progress happens when both partners pause and ask:

“Can we look at this together?”
“What’s the pattern showing up here?”
“How do we solve this as a team?”
It’s not you vs me.
It’s us vs the problem.

And that shift changes everything. 🤍

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

*xologist
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01/12/2026

Often times these topics are not discussed early on in a relationship.

This leads to mismatched expectations, disappointment, and disconnection.

Nobody wants any part of that avoid the negativity and start the conversations early.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

01/05/2026

The BEST lovers aren’t always the most experienced.

It takes much more than experience to make chandeliers swing and fireworks to explode.

If you focus on the performance you miss out on the magic of connection and enhanced pleasure.

Curiousity is the key to keeping desire alive

If you want an incredible sxx life, start getting curious!

Start asking questions and be interested in your partner’s experience — start exploring!

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

*xologist
*xologist
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Check out my international best selling book, Speaking of Sxx!




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Love isn’t proven in grand gestures or intense feelings alone.
Those can be beautiful, but they’re not what carries a re...
12/31/2025

Love isn’t proven in grand gestures or intense feelings alone.

Those can be beautiful, but they’re not what carries a relationship through stress, conflict, exhaustion, or change.

What sustains connection is behavior.

How you speak when you’re frustrated.

How you listen when it would be easier to shut down.

How consistently you show care, even on ordinary days.

Love becomes real through action through presence, compassion, accountability, and the willingness to keep choosing each other.


Feelings may ebb and flow, but what you do is what creates safety, trust, and longevity.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!


 
 
 
 


12/29/2025

Your body doesn’t easily forget what’s happened to you when we experience, betrayal, criticism, or fear the body stores that tension.

It’s important to find ways to release that tension.

Emotional safety turns the light back on for physical desire.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

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This season comes with memories, expectations, tender moments, and sometimes tender wounds too.
If your emotions feel mi...
12/24/2025

This season comes with memories, expectations, tender moments, and sometimes tender wounds too.

If your emotions feel mixed, messy, or unexpected, you’re not alone.

Being human doesn’t pause for the holidays.

Let your heart breathe. Let your feelings be what they are.

You’re doing the best you can and that is more than enough.

Sending warmth to anyone who needs it today.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

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12/24/2025

Get out of your head and focus on what you are feeling in the moment.

This allows pleasure to be felt and your to-do list to be sidelined.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

*xologist
*xologist
*xologist

Check out my international best selling book, Speaking of Sxx!





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Explore Intimacy serves couples that are looking to enhance their marriage or relationship by leveraging the educating and coaching experience of Shauna Harris. We specialize in solving intimacy issues and complexities that couples can’t achieve without outside consultation. We assess relationships, provide feedback, use science based strategies and implement tactics to promote healthy and intimate relationships. There is no knot or obstacle that we can’t untangle.