01/28/2026
If you sit in your car before going inside, this is for you.
You’re already home. Or at work. Or parked outside somewhere you’re supposed to be. The car is off. You should go inside. But instead… you’re just sitting there.
Maybe you’re scrolling your phone without really reading anything. Maybe you’re staring straight ahead. Maybe that song ended a while ago and you did not notice. Maybe you are giving yourself a quiet pep talk. Maybe you are just trying to remember what it feels like to not be exhausted.
You tell yourself, five more minutes. That is all you need.
Five minutes where nobody needs anything from you.
Five minutes where you are not “mom,” or “the strong one,” or “the one who holds it all together.”
Five minutes where you do not have to talk, smile, problem solve, or explain how your day was when you are barely holding it together.
The car is that in between place. You are not at work anymore, but you are not home yet. You are not dealing with what you just left, and you are not ready for what is waiting inside. You are just there, needing a moment to switch gears.
And here is the part people do not say out loud. This is not you being lazy or dramatic. It is not you falling apart. It is you trying to regulate yourself. It is you taking a breath before you keep going.
Somewhere along the way, your car became your decompression space. The one place where no one can ask you for anything. Where you can sit quietly and remind yourself, I can do this for a little longer.
So if you are reading this from your car right now, parked outside wherever you are supposed to be, take your five minutes. You are not doing anything wrong. Nobody inside even knows you are out here.
And when you are ready, whether that five minutes turns into ten, you will go inside. You will do what needs to be done. Because that is what you always do.
But right now, the car is yours. 🚗