01/02/2023
๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ถ๐ ๐ด๐ผ๐ผ๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ
What Iโm about to tell you may sound counterintuitive.
Perhaps even โunbelievableโ.
๐๐๐ฉ ๐ ๐๐จ๐จ๐ช๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช, ๐ถ๐โ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น.
I know, because Iโve used this approach to heal my relationship with my son, Eric.
And Iโve helped more than a thousand women use it to heal their relationships as well.
Here it is:
๐๐ผ๐ฐ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ, ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐.
Sound selfish? Good!
Selfishness gets a bad rap these days.
And to be sure, there is an extreme version of selfishness that actually degrades relationships.
But if a relationship is always one-sided โฆ where one personโs needs are not being met, while the other always gets their wayโฆ
Itโs almost certain that resentment and anger will set in.
Perhaps you can relate?
However, when ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ต people are getting their needs met the relationship can flourish.
๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐:
Flowers need bees to carry pollen away and deposit it elsewhere, so new flowers can grow.
Thatโs how flowers survive.
Bees need flowers for food. Thatโs how bees survive.
If the flower refuses to give up the pollen, what happens?
Both the flower and the bee suffer.
The same is true in your relationship. If one person withholds from the other, both suffer.
Itโs important that you ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ต get what you need.
So focusing on yourself, your priorities, isnโt just something that would be โniceโ.
Itโs imperative.
Like oxygen.
You canโt live very long without oxygen.
And no relationship can thrive, when one person isnโt getting what they need.
Find out my โselfishโ approach to communicating your needs:
https://link.livewellandfully.com/f5gq0h0