03/17/2024
The issue with spirituality in relationships is that it makes it too easy to justify bad behavior or incompatibility just because someone is your ✨soulmate✨
For example:
Maybe you got a psychic reading and they divined your future partner and then you meet them and the whole time you are thinking to yourself: "This is my soulmate!!"
🙅🏻♀️ The danger is that you end up make excuses for behavior that doesn't actually line up with an aligned, healthy partner for you.
🥀 It can also make you feel obligated to be with them — even when it's no longer in your best interest.
Listen, I honor the spiritual aspect of relationships. I really do. I think it's an essential component.
And as a psychic love coach, I accurately predict new partners coming in for my clients all the time.
Sometimes I even get a lot of detail about them, such as:
✍️ What they look like. What they feel like. Where you may meet them. How close they are. Timing. How serious of a relationship it might be. Etc.
But you'll rarely hear me saying:
This is your husband. This is your soulmate. This is THE ONE AND ONLY.
Why?
Because I do not subscribe to the belief that once you meet this person your life will suddenly be perfect and everything will be happily ever after and you won't have to even try.
Someone may look like a potential life partner match in the quantum, but in the 3D?
👉🏼 There are choices to be made. Sequences of events that must occur. Consistent actions and behaviors that need to line up with what you actually want in a relationship.
No one is husband/wife material until they show you that they are. In real life. In person. Consistently over time.
Potential is just that — potential.
Even in a soulmate partnership, you still need to:
❣️Listen to your body and intuition
❣️Communicate effectively and consistently
❣️Continuously create your partnership and maintain its health — every day
You deserve someone who rises to meet you — both in the quantum AND the 3D.
