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10/02/2025

🔥 Catalyst Conversations: S**t That’s GOT to Change
Ep. 1 – Stop Pointing Fingers

Your finger-pointing is killing your relationship.💥

And in this Catalyst Conversation, I’m breaking down why that sh*t’s got to stop… and what you need to be doing instead.

This is the first episode in my boldest series yet: S**t That’s GOT. To. Change!

I’m naming 4 of the most damaging (yet totally “normal”) habits, lies, and cultural scripts that are quietly poisoning your love, and revealing the radical truths that will heal and set it free.

This week… If you’re ready to stop banging your head against the wall in blame and frustration and start leading your relationship into healing and change… you do not want to miss this one.

❤️‍🔥 Join me for every Catalyst Conversation– live every Friday at 12:30 Pacific.

✨ Want to go deeper? Become a member of The Relationship (R)Evolution for weekly activations, tools, and support. Learn more and join here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

👉🏼AND! Subscribe to our YouTube channel youtube.com/ for more Catalyst Conversations and revolutionary relationship tools!

10/02/2025

🚨 Your relationship can’t survive this.
Not for long.

And yet... almost everyone is doing it.
Maybe even you.
It’s one of the most common habits we fall into.
It feels justified.
It feels GOOD in the moment.

But underneath?
It’s destroying the very thing you want most...

This week I’m starting my boldest Catalyst Conversations series yet:
🔥 S**t That’s GOT. To. Change!

And in the very first episode, I’m going straight for the jugular. 😳

I’m talking about the ONE thing that’s keeping you stuck, powerless, and disconnected…..And what HAS TO HAPPEN instead if you want the kind of love that actually fuels your life.

You can either have this info for your relationship... or not.

Butand I gotta tell you. What I'm talking about this Friday... is the ONLY REASON Calvin and I are still together... (and the foundational reason our relationship is so fu***ng good.)

So... you'll be there, or... 😘

👉 Tune in LIVE, right here on this page, Friday at 12:30 Pacific for Catalyst Conversations: S**t That Has Got. To. Change! Episode #1

✨ And if you’re ready to not just hear about it but PRACTICE it—join us inside The Relationship (R)Evolution: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

Can't make it live? Comment REPLAY, and I'll make sure to get you access.

09/30/2025

It’s the same story all the time from nearly every couple I talk to. 💔

Little by little, the spark faded. The distance grew. And their marriage became less fulfilling, less passionate, less energizing. And then… instead of feeding you, it “bleeds” you, draining your energy, leaving you feeling lonely, disconnected, and deeply unfulfilled at home.

Even when there was a big event, like a betrayal or a lie, the same story had been playing out long before.

And it happens… because we don’t know how to effectively address those pieces of our marriage that we’d like to see change.

And the cumulative effect of all those little moments of wanting, asking for, or trying to get something different… and NOT… adds up.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

That’s what my 3 new private offers are about: Creating change. Real… lasting… change. 🔥

✨ But here’s the urgency: these private offers disappear TONIGHT at midnight.

If you know you’re ready for things to finally change in your marriage, I can show you how. Even if it feels like you’ve already tried everything. EVEN if it’s only you doing the work. 💥

👉🏼Drop a ❤️and I’ll send you the details of these limited-time offers, and we can talk next steps.

(No exceptions, friends… these opportunities go away forever at midnight tonight - September 30th. So if you feel the pull, listen.)

I love you. 😘

09/30/2025

I'll never forget our very first client. Let's call her Emily.

When she came to us, she'd had enough.

After nearly 18 years, she still wasn't getting what she needed from her husband-- affection, attention, true connection and closeness.

And whenever she tried to talk to him about it? Defensiveness. Making HER out to be the problem! 😒

Emily was done, and divorce was seriously on the table. 💔

Working with us was her last lifeline.

And can I tell you a secret? 🤫

At that time... Cal and I didn’t YET have proof that our methodology worked for anyone but ourselves! 😳

BUTAND... we KNEW that what we had discovered was different than anything else out there... different from anything we'd ever
❌ Seen
❌ Read
❌ Experienced
❌ Or even learned about in over a DECADE of formal relationship education!!!!! 🤯

❤️‍🔥It had moved our relationship from incompatible and unbearable to incomparable and unbelievable! ❤️‍🔥

And we believed the steps that saved us... could save Emily and Mark’s marriage too.

Listen... By only our 3rd call, Emily was marveling at how different things already felt! 🥳

The shift was undeniable... the transformation... was life-changing.

That was 4.5 years ago, and Emily and Mark continue to report that they are doing better than they ever had in their 18 year prior to working with us.

Since then, Cal and I have helped hundreds of couples through our teachings, programs, and private support. And our work is now better and more powerful than ever.

And right now... in this season of change, as the weather shifts and the year winds down... I want to help YOU finally experience the transformation you’ve been longing for in YOUR marriage.

👉🏼That's why I created 3 brand-new, one-time-only private offers.

🔥 But they disappear tomorrow at midnight.

So if you're ready for your marriage to FINALLY change, now is the time to move.

Here's what I'm going to do to help. In our work together, I will:
❤️‍🔥 Pinpoint the real problem and why nothing has worked so far.
❤️‍🔥 Share the exact solution that will finally move the needle.
❤️‍🔥 Chart out your personalized M.A.P (Marriage Actualization Path)
❤️‍🔥 Equip you with the relational tools that actually work (even if you’re partner's not doing the work with you at first)
❤️‍🔥 Show you how to invite your spouse into the process so you’re not carrying it alone forever.

✨ Whether you choose a 3-hour intensive, 3 months of private support, or a 6-month full transformation with a private retreat—this is your moment to say YES to the marriage your heart secretly wishes for.

But you only have until tomorrow at midnight before these opportunities are gone.

👉 Drop a ❤️ below, and we’ll talk details and next steps.
Your future in love is waiting, my friend.

(P.S. Emily’s story isn’t unique anymore. We’ve seen it play out again and again. The difference is in the decision. Don’t wait another year, another month, or another fight to change things. These private offers disappear tomorrow at midnight. Just comment with a ❤️, and let’s get started.)

09/27/2025

Did y’all see this!? 3 new ways to work with me.. only 3 days left!👇🏽

I SEE THE WAY FORWARD IN YOUR MARRIAGE... even when you can’t. And it doesn’t require your partner’s participation. 🤯💥
You’re getting restless in the gap between what your marriage IS and what you WANT it to be. You’ve tried everything...  but it hasn’t really budged, and you just want to feel some progress, partnership, and possibility again!

(Wait though… let’s be honest. Why sell yourself short on your dreams. The bold TRUTH is this: What you REALLY want is a marriage that lights you up and lifts you up in ALL the ways! ❤️‍🔥💥✨And whether you realize it yet or not, that’s exactly what you DESERVE to, and can, have.)

Listen, the reason nothing has really gotten better yet is because you’re trying to fix the WRONG PROBLEM, and you’re using the WRONG TOOLS to do it!

That’s where I come in.

I’ve just put together 3 new ways to work with me privately, where I will help you cut through the noise, get crystal clear on what’s REALLY happening, chart the exact path forward, and equip you with the relational tools that ACTUALLY work… so you can finally start experiencing the marriage your heart secretly wishes for… EVEN if your partner isn’t on board (yet).
Here’s how I’m going to bridge that gap with you:

❤️‍🔥 We’re going to pinpoint the REAL problem, and I’ll show you why what you’ve tried hasn’t worked (and never will).

❤️‍🔥 I’ll share the specific solution that will actually move the needle in YOUR marriage, and show you exactly what you need to do to achieve it.

❤️‍🔥 We’ll map out a step-by-step path from the relationship you have now to the one you dream of, so you can be confident in your ability to get there.

❤️‍🔥 I’m going to equip you with the relational tools you need to make those changes. These are tools that WORK, even if you’re leading the way on your own at first.

❤️‍🔥 Show you how to effectively invite your spouse into their part of the work, so you can be assured that you WON’T be carrying this marriage alone, and you WILL get your needs met.
These are one-time, never-before seen VIP offers at exclusive rates, only available until 9/30. ⏳

drop a ❤️below, and I’ll send you the details.

09/26/2025

🔥 Liberating Assumption #4: The Problem is NOT the Problem

Most couples waste years trying to fix the wrong thing—circling the same arguments, repeating the same frustrations, and never getting traction.

In today’s Catalyst Conversation, I'm breaking open one of the most common (and costly) blind spots in relationships, and revealing a radically different way to see the challenges that keep you stuck.

Get ready to be disrupted. To see your “problems” in a whole new light... And to discover the key that could set you free.

👉 Want to go deeper? Join The Relationship (R)Evolution—a $147/month membership with weekly practices, community, and tools to transform your relationship from the inside out: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more Catalyst Conversations + tools for visionary women who want legendary marriages!

09/26/2025

My live is late bc im finishing a podcast but I’ll BRT!

09/26/2025

Tell me about the problem in your marriage… the thing you’re unhappy about… and I promise you… IT is not actually the problem you’re facing. 😳

The REAL issue is something entirely different… something that EVERY stuck couple is missing. 🤯

And sadly…
Most couples waste YEARS fighting the wrong fight…
…Circling the same arguments.
…Repeating the same frustrations.
…Exhausting themselves…
… and slowly eroding away connection, warmth, and hope. 😔

And can I just add something here…

You have got WAY too much love and value to give to the world to be leaking SO much power, energy, and time trying to fix the WRONG PROBLEM.

(Or trying to “manage” a marriage that’s not ACTUALLY fulfilling you.)

Sorry, not sorry love. 😘
In today’s Catalyst Conversation, I’m going to blow this issue WIDE OPEN. 💥

So you can start directing your precious resources to solving the problem that REALLY matters..
…AND…
…(more importantly)...

…start experiencing the shifts, the ease, the love, and the HAPPINESS in your relationship that reflects what you are meant to be living. ❤️‍🔥

Join me Live, Today for this week’s Catalyst Conversation for a Relationship Revolution:

👉🏼Liberating Assumptions, Ep. 4:
🔥THE PROBLEM IS NOT THE PROBLEM! 🔥
12:30p Pacific
Live, right here on this page.

🙋🏻‍♀️Can’t make it live? Drop the word “Replay” and I’ll make sure you get access. Trust me, you won’t want to miss this one.

09/26/2025

You're fighting the wrong problem in your marriage. 💥

Liberating Assumptions Ep. 4- LIVE, here tomorrow, 12:30p Pacific.

09/24/2025

I SEE THE WAY FORWARD IN YOUR MARRIAGE... even when you can’t. And it doesn’t require your partner’s participation. 🤯💥
You’re getting restless in the gap between what your marriage IS and what you WANT it to be. You’ve tried everything...  but it hasn’t really budged, and you just want to feel some progress, partnership, and possibility again!

(Wait though… let’s be honest. Why sell yourself short on your dreams. The bold TRUTH is this: What you REALLY want is a marriage that lights you up and lifts you up in ALL the ways! ❤️‍🔥💥✨And whether you realize it yet or not, that’s exactly what you DESERVE to, and can, have.)

Listen, the reason nothing has really gotten better yet is because you’re trying to fix the WRONG PROBLEM, and you’re using the WRONG TOOLS to do it!

That’s where I come in.

I’ve just put together 3 new ways to work with me privately, where I will help you cut through the noise, get crystal clear on what’s REALLY happening, chart the exact path forward, and equip you with the relational tools that ACTUALLY work… so you can finally start experiencing the marriage your heart secretly wishes for… EVEN if your partner isn’t on board (yet).
Here’s how I’m going to bridge that gap with you:

❤️‍🔥 We’re going to pinpoint the REAL problem, and I’ll show you why what you’ve tried hasn’t worked (and never will).

❤️‍🔥 I’ll share the specific solution that will actually move the needle in YOUR marriage, and show you exactly what you need to do to achieve it.

❤️‍🔥 We’ll map out a step-by-step path from the relationship you have now to the one you dream of, so you can be confident in your ability to get there.

❤️‍🔥 I’m going to equip you with the relational tools you need to make those changes. These are tools that WORK, even if you’re leading the way on your own at first.

❤️‍🔥 Show you how to effectively invite your spouse into their part of the work, so you can be assured that you WON’T be carrying this marriage alone, and you WILL get your needs met.
These are one-time, never-before seen VIP offers at exclusive rates, only available until 9/30. ⏳

drop a ❤️below, and I’ll send you the details.

09/24/2025

I SEE THE WAY FORWARD IN YOUR MARRIAGE... even when you can’t. And it doesn’t require your partner’s participation. 🤯💥

You're getting restless in the gap between what your marriage IS and what you WANT it to be. You’ve tried everything... but it hasn’t really budged, and you just want to feel some progress, partnership, and possibility again!

(Wait though… let’s be honest. Why sell yourself short on your dreams. The bold TRUTH is this: What you REALLY want is a marriage that lights you up and lifts you up in ALL the ways! ❤️‍🔥💥✨And whether you realize it yet or not, that’s exactly what you DESERVE to, and can, have.)

Listen, the reason nothing has really gotten better yet is because you’re trying to fix the WRONG PROBLEM, and you’re using the WRONG TOOLS to do it!

That’s where I come in.

I’ve just put together 3 new ways to work with me privately, where I will help you cut through the noise, get crystal clear on what’s REALLY happening, chart the exact path forward, and equip you with the relational tools that ACTUALLY work… so you can finally start experiencing the marriage your heart secretly wishes for… EVEN if your partner isn’t on board (yet).
--

Here’s how I’m going to bridge that gap with you:

❤️‍🔥 We’re going to pinpoint the REAL problem, and I’ll show you why what you’ve tried hasn’t worked (and never will).

❤️‍🔥 I’ll share the specific solution that will actually move the needle in YOUR marriage, and show you exactly what you need to do to achieve it.

❤️‍🔥 We’ll map out a step-by-step path from the relationship you have now to the one you dream of, so you can be confident in your ability to get there.

❤️‍🔥 I’m going to equip you with the relational tools you need to make those changes. These are tools that WORK, even if you’re leading the way on your own at first.

❤️‍🔥 Show you how to effectively invite your spouse into their part of the work, so you can be assured that you WON’T be carrying this marriage alone, and you WILL get your needs met.

This is for you if…

🔥 You have a vision for something extraordinary in your marriage, but right now it feels stuck, frustrating, and misaligne… and you’re DONE settling for that.

🔥 You crave a relationship that fills your heart and supports you in every way… but instead, it’s been costing you more energy than it gives.

🔥 You want to feel cherished, seen, and deeply connected, but you don’t right now. Instead you’re walking on eggshells, going through the motions, and feeling alone in your own home.

🔥You KNOW you want this marriage to work and to become everything it could be, but you just can’t figure out how to get it there, and in the meantime, the struggles you’re stuck in are costing you time, energy, and power.
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These are one-time, never-before seen VIP offers at exclusive rates. ⏳

And they are ONLY available for 7 days (Today’s day 2!) 😳

So if you’re feeling called to move… your next step is easy.
👉🏼Just drop a ❤️below, and I’ll send you the details.

09/23/2025

CALLING ALL VISIONARY WOMEN!

I'm thrilled to share that PowerfuLove is joining as a sponsor at the 2025 EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN UNITE conference in Lakewood, Colorado!

If you haven't heard of it, I highly recommend checking it out here: https://bit.ly/EWIgnite.

This is an opportunity to join other change-making women (and me and Calvin Osili... yes, he's going too!) in an atmosphere of though-leadership, empowerment, and STRATEGY. 💥

If you want kick off 2026 ON 🔥🔥🔥 with a strategy and a plan to make it all happen...BIGGER than ever.....knowing with confidence how you will your voice, your vision, and your visibility to expand your own wild success.....then IGNITE is where you need to be.

I'm so grateful to the founder of this event, for inviting me to be a sponsor! I KNOW it's going to blow me away... not only with the information, but also with the EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN this event attracts.

I can't wait to see YOU there, too! 😘

You can learn more and get your ticket(s) here! https://bit.ly/EWIgnite.