12/19/2025
This is a question from my quiz, "How big a problem is my s*x life?" This one is a complicated question. Most people consider it a problem when they (or their partner) don't want s*x. The truth is there is more than one way to experience desire, and it's ok (and normal) to need to get in the mood. Still, differences in levels of libido are the biggest reason people start to feel tension and stress in their s*x life, and that's not a winning formula for ease and enjoyment.
How would you answer the question?
• Yes, one of us feels little to no desire.
• Yes, both of us feel little to no desire, and that’s a problem.
• No, we both want s*x.
• No, neither of us wants s*x, but we’re both totally fine with that.
You can take the quiz at https://www.s*xlifequiz.com/