Joseph A. Losi, MA, LMFT Certified EFT Therapist for Couples, Men & Women

02/01/2025

This is a pretty solid article until the author cites Michele Wiener Davis's advice to "Just Do It." No way. If your emotional connection isn't being addressed, attempting to "Just Do It" can be very hurtful, even traumatic. Please seek out the help of a credentialed therapist who has experience working to untangle your Emotional/s*xual/Caregiving Cycle.

How important is s*x in a relationship? While the answer varies from couple to couple, there are benefits to having s*x. Learn more about how to have healthy s*x.

12/12/2024

It is not EFT, but the core principles of defusing conflict in couples can be applied to defusing conflict on large-scale political divides. I knew it all along. It is all about understanding the concepts we construct about why another person, our spouse, or the Republicans from Texas are inherently flawed. That is the dangerous belief that divides us, Israels & Gazins...the list is endless. We must stop focusing on details and content. That focus produces endless spirals of insanity making "pull your hair out" spirals. Thanks to my wife for sharing this article with me.

We’re in a national moment of great fear and suspicion. But the principles of psychoanalysis that can help feuding couples can also help us reconcile our differences.

12/01/2024

Bills mafia. This family we needs our help!

Join us in supporting the Maldanado family as they are fighting through an extremely tragic time. Jason and April were out for a walk on Tuesday morning when they were struck by an F250. April lost her life to the injuries sustained in the accident. Jason sustained life threatening injuries, but tha...

11/29/2024

Rule 5:
After Assuming Nothing, Attuning to All Emotion * Affirming All Thoughts*
Be Curious - Always!!

11/29/2024

With Buffalo Bills – I just made it onto their weekly engagement list by being one of their top engagers! 🎉

11/29/2024

With Buffalo Bills – I just got recognized as one of their top fans! 🎉

11/26/2024

https://www.womensmarch.com/

I am going....U2? Bring sturdy boots!!!

The mission of Women’s March is to harness the political power of diverse women and their communities to create transformative social change.

11/26/2024

Rule 3
Attune To All Emotions
I am Sad...Yeah...you're sad...oh 😢
Not, "What Why are you Sad!" 🤨

08/22/2024

Very solid, actionable thoughts and advice:

We asked nearly a dozen experts in s*x and intimacy for the advice they repeat again and again. For starters, they said, don’t get so hung up on how often you have, or want, s*x.