06/17/2021
It is SO normal when you are moving away from diet culture and to attuned eating to feel shame, guilt or the strong desire to change your body. When you feel these, try these four things!
1. Ask yourself, “ What else is going on?”
Diet Culture has conditioned us that when we feel out of control, have a lot of uncertainty or strong negative emotions, that turning to “fix ourselves” will make this uncertainty better. Diet Culture has trained us to focus on us, ourselves verses look externally at what else is going on - all of the external factors that are also impacting us (work, family, an unjust world, etc). So pause, zoom out and ask “what is making me feel this way? What else is going on?”
2. Recognize the thought and try to shift it to neutral or affirming. Try a self-compassion break! Kristin Neff’s self compassion break can be so beneficial. Feel the emotional discomfort in your body. Next: A. Say this is a moment of suffering or this hurts. B. Remind yourself other people feel this way, you are not alone. (Common humanity) C. Say to yourself, May I be kind to myself or May I learn to accept myself as I am.
3. Talk to the voice or feelings. Thank them then send them on their way!
4. Remind yourself of the bigger picture - who benefits when you feel shame or guilt about your body or your food habits?