02/28/2026
A Medium's Hot Take: Why I don't believe in "signs" from Spirit. 🚩
I know this is going to ruffle some feathers (pun intended), but we need to talk about "signs" from Spirit.
As an evidential psychic medium, my hottest take is that I actually don't believe our loved ones are dropping pennies on the sidewalk or sending specific birds to our windows. I believe signs are an "us" thing, not a "them" thing.
When we are grieving, our brains naturally look for patterns and symbols to feel connected to the people we miss. Finding meaning in a cardinal or a repeating number is a beautiful, deeply human psychological coping mechanism—but it is our own meaning we are attaching to it.
Spirit communicates through undeniable, specific evidence—real memories, personality traits, and shared history—not vague symbols. You don't have to wait for a sign to know they are still with you. 🤍
What do you think? Let me know in the comments if you agree, or tell me why you completely disagree! 👇