04/17/2026
Here’s how to stop worrying before it takes over your whole day:
Step 1: Catch it early (this is everything)
Start trying to notice the FIRST change in how you’re feeling.
You pick up your phone… read a text…
and suddenly your mind starts racing.
That little “uh oh” feeling?
That’s the moment you need to get good at identifying.
Because if you wait until you’re already worrying, it’s harder to pull yourself out of it.
Step 2: Say it out loud (or in your head)
“Okay… I’m starting to worry.”
Don’t get mad at yourself for worrying. Just notice that it’s there.
Just name it for what it is.
This STOPS the thinking pattern in its tracks.
Step 3: Interrupt your body
Once you realize you’re beginning to worry,
Don’t try to think your way out of it the problem that’s making you feel that way. Don’t analyze the text!!!!
That’s where people get stuck.
Instead:
Take a slow breath.
Drop your shoulders as far away from your ears as you can.
Feel your feet on the ground or your body sitting in your chair.
You’re telling your body:
“Hey… we’re okay right now. There’s no need to start getting worked up.”
Step 4: Separate what’s real vs what your brain is predicting
What actually happened? You received a text message.
One thing. That’s it. Nothing else is presently happening.
Yet- your brain is doing?
Jumping ahead… filling in gaps… creating outcomes.
Bring yourself back to:
“What do I KNOW is true right now?”
I simply got a text.
Step 5: Give yourself one grounded next move coming from the place of truth
Reply to the text (calmly, not in panic or defense mode)
Finish the task in front of you.
Have the conversation.
Whatever the issue is, worrying wants to pull you into the future.
The practice I just described to you brings you back to right now so you can respond, not react.
Does this make sense??