08/28/2025
Honoring the sacred cycle
What if, as a couple, we are being called to honor the feminine cycle as a Sacred occurrence?
What if it’s not just “that time of the month,” but instead an opportunity to come together more deeply? Society often tells us that a woman’s cycle is something to be ashamed of, something to be hidden.
But what if we, as the masculine, step more fully into our divine masculine essence and embrace our partner’s cycle as an opportunity to be the Sacred container — holding her as she flows, releases, and realigns in concert with nature’s rhythms?
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Try this for a deeper connection within your relationship:
✨ Track your partner’s cycle with her. See the upcoming menstruation as a Sacred occurrence — an opportunity to support her in the most meaningful way.
✨ Treat this as a quiet time of reverence, connection, and support. Perhaps we buy flowers to celebrate the beauty of the creative process she is traversing. Perhaps we consciously absorb some of her load during this time — cooking meals, tending the home, or taking over daily tasks.
✨ When she is in the deepest part of release, sit behind her, legs wrapped around her. Wrap your arms around her body, placing your hands gently on her womb space — a reminder that “I’ve got you. You are safe, seen, and held in love.”
From here, attune your breath to hers, allowing her rhythm to be the Sacred template. With each inhale, draw in the nourishing energy of Mother Earth — unconditional love and gratitude for creation itself. With each exhale, send her love, warmth, and tenderness.
✨ Offer words of affirmation that honor the sacredness of what she is moving through:
“I honor your cycle, your flow, your divine feminine wisdom.”
“I honor your womb as the source of life, creation, and mystery.”
“I am with you — surrounding you in love, creating a Sacred container of support and protection.”
You can personalize this practice by gently massaging soothing essential oils onto her stomach, lighting a candle, scattering rose petals, or closing with a gentle, nurturing massage — given with no expectation of return.
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This is the kind of love and presence that the embodied Divine Masculine provides. After all, the Divine Masculine is the riverbank that gives the Divine Feminine the safety to flow freely in all her cycles and phases.
And yes — adding a Sacred sexual practice to this can not only deepen your connection, but has also been shown, in many cases, to ease the discomfort she feels during these Sacred moments. 🦋