01/08/2026
These may feel like unpopular opinions, but they come up again and again when we look at how children actually develop.
Age alone doesn’t determine readiness. Two children can be the same age and have very different nervous system maturity, sensory integration, and capacity to learn. Development isn’t linear and it isn’t one size fits all.
A brain under stress struggles to learn. When a child’s nervous system is overwhelmed, focused attention, emotional regulation, and learning become much harder. Support comes before expectations.
And nutrition matters more than many people realize. The brain needs proper fuel to develop, regulate, and function well, especially during periods of rapid growth.
When we zoom out and look at the whole child, not just behaviors or academic performance, we can better understand what support is actually needed. Learning thrives when the nervous system feels safe, supported, and ready.
If this resonates, you’re not alone in thinking differently about development.