12/17/2025
It's 6:45pm on Christmas Eve. Your kid seemed "fine" all day. But now they're in the car sobbing. Or screaming. Or completely shut down.
Here's what "fine" actually looked like from inside their head:
Lights too bright. TV too loud. Someone's perfume burning their nose. Sitting on a scratchy couch while everyone watched them open gifts. Making their face do the "grateful" thing. Smiling through "how's school" when their brain was screaming to talk about axolotls instead.
By the time they got to the car? Nothing left.
That meltdown isn't bad behavior. It's a nervous system that held on as long as it could.
New on the blog: why holidays are so hard for neurodivergent kids, and what's actually happening in their brain when they "fall apart."
Read the blog here: summitranch.org/blog/why-the-holidays-can-feel-so-hard-for-neurodivergent-kids-and-what-actually-helps