Reid Professional Counseling Center, PLLC

Reid Professional Counseling Center, PLLC Reid Professional Counseling Center offers evidenced-based therapeutic practices for our clients. Your journey to healing starts here.

10/05/2025

Neuroscience is uncovering a startling truth about the power of the human mind: the more we fear something, the more likely it becomes to happen. This phenomenon is explained by a process called predictive coding, where the brain constantly forecasts outcomes based on past experiences, emotions, and expectations.

When fear dominates your thoughts, your brain interprets that focus as a signal of importance. Neural circuits then become wired to look for, interpret, and even create circumstances that confirm the feared outcome. In other words, the brain starts shaping reality to match its strongest predictions.

For example, someone with a deep fear of failure may unconsciously act in ways that sabotage their own success, hesitating, second-guessing, or avoiding opportunities. Over time, the brain’s predictions become self-fulfilling prophecies. Similarly, constant fear of illness may heighten stress, weaken immunity, and ironically increase vulnerability to the very condition being feared.

This doesn’t mean the brain magically creates external events, but it powerfully influences perception, decision-making, and behavior. By focusing obsessively on what we fear, we give it space to grow and take root in our lives.

The good news is that predictive coding works both ways. If the brain amplifies fear when we focus on it, it can also amplify positive outcomes when we train it to focus on hope, resilience, and possibility. Shifting focus reshapes neural pathways, allowing new patterns and outcomes to emerge.

Neuroscience proves that fear is not just an emotion, it is an architect of experience. By changing what we give our attention to, we can change the future we create.

06/20/2025

So so true

So profound
05/29/2025

So profound

Sometimes, it’s not the love we remember most—it’s the pain that keeps replaying, looping in our minds like a cruel echo. The heart can’t delete what the mind won’t let go of. When your mind starts to ruminate, try grounding yourself in the present, acknowledging your emotions without judgment, and taking small steps to disrupt the cycle with self-compassion. Healing isn’t about forgetting, but about learning to live with what we can’t erase. What helps you find peace when your mind won’t stop replaying the past?

06/17/2024
06/17/2024

There’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. This is not true. We can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. In fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. The version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.

~ --blooooom.tumblr.com

[Art: Claudia Kaak]

04/28/2024
Children can be your healing.
04/06/2024

Children can be your healing.

This is just so beautiful 💕

04/06/2024

POV: you are hard on yourself… from my book Come Be Cozy🕯️☕️

Thoughts on this poem?
04/06/2024

Thoughts on this poem?

Edgar Allan Poe's "The Raven"

It is more than a haunting poem; it's a psychological thriller in verse. We enter the desolate chamber of a grieving unnamed lover, haunted by the recent loss of his beloved Lenore. The poem unfolds like a nightmare, fueled by insomnia and despair.

Summary:

A rapping sound pierces the silence, and a raven enters the chamber. The man, desperate for connection, engages the bird in conversation. Each question about Lenore is met with the chilling response, "Nevermore." The raven's presence intensifies the man's descent into madness. He fixates on the ominous word, clinging to the hope it might somehow hold the key to reuniting with Lenore, even in the afterlife. But "Nevermore" becomes a cruel echo, shattering any hope and plunging him deeper into despair.

Critical Analysis:

Symbolism: The raven itself is a powerful symbol. Its blackness evokes death and despair. Its repetitive utterance of "Nevermore" reinforces the man's sense of hopelessness. The chamber represents his isolation and grief, while Lenore embodies lost love and the yearning for the past.

Sound and Meter: Poe masterfully uses sound and rhythm to create a chilling atmosphere. The repetition of "Nevermore" becomes a terrifying mantra. The hypnotic meter lulls the reader into the man's deteriorating mental state.

Psychological Exploration: "The Raven" delves into the depths of human grief. It explores themes of loss, memory, and the fear of oblivion. The poem doesn't offer solace; it forces us to confront the darkness that can consume us when hope fades.

Criticisms: Some critics argue that the poem is overly reliant on melodrama and Gothic tropes. Others find the constant repetition tiresome.

Enduring Power: Despite these criticisms, "The Raven" remains a classic. Its exploration of universal human emotions, combined with Poe's masterful use of language, ensures its place as a chilling and thought-provoking masterpiece.

04/06/2024

Be gentle to the mom you are right now.

She has worked so hard to become the version of herself she is today.

Cheer her on, and don't give up on her.

Even if she found herself overwhelmed,
or she yelled at her kids and is now filled with immense guilt and defeat and feels like she wants to break down in tears.

She’s doing her best.

She shows up,
She tries every day,
and no one loves her kids more.

Let that be enough.

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