In-between

11/25/2024

Feeling a little Holiday gloom and then this popped up! ✨🙏🏽👑

11/04/2024

One confusing element for women….

Our power isn’t experienced *initially* in the physical world. It’s an energy that subtly (or not so subtly) influences the external world.

Our power shines and influences in the realm of the unseen, the space between, and the way Life feels.

And then it’s effect shows up externally.

Women who go directly for the external world shift (doing the thing to make it happen) end up taking the space where men would protect and provide naturally. So she won’t experience the men in her life as provisional. Because she doesn’t have any space for him to show up otherwise.

In other words, it’s not for you to do it all. It’s for you to *be* it all.

And by that I mean, be you.

In all your radiance and glory and beauty. And watch the way Life profoundly, intelligently and lovingly responds to your power. ✨💃🏼✨

+Nicolai D’Alonzo

10/31/2024

10/22/2024

Things I’ve learned from sitting with the dying:

1. We take our health for granted. There is no better time than now to take care of your health. Health is true wealth!

2. Music, touch, and smells are often the most effective way of communicating with people who are very close to death. The little things do matter!

3. Most people don’t have an extravagant bucket list. For many being at home with family and friends is it.

4. It’s important to think about what you would or wouldn’t want at the end of your life. Write these down and or tell your loved ones so they know.

5. Don’t delay anything that is of importance to you! Use your time wisely! Don’t put off the things you want to do!

6. Love openly and leave nothing unsaid. Tell your people your feelings sincerely and often.

7. Crying is a POWERFUL tool! Use it to your advantage, Crying releases oxytocin and endorphins, which can help ease physical and emotional pain both and elevate your mood. Tears are natural pain killers too.

8. Death can help you realize what matters in life and find your purpose.

9. Death can prompt you to examine yourself.

10. Death is a reminder that life is short and a privilege. To show up entirely!!!

10/09/2024

My greatest fear isn’t death, it’s not living to my potiential!

ITS BEING CONSUMED BY THE BLEND of society’s conforming ways…

You must be willing to face death head on

Or death will come out looking for you.

And it won't be pretty.

Facing our fears, making peace with death and saying goodbye to living small.

Let us face our shadows head on before they consume our life as we sleep.

If you want to leave a legacy behind you have to come alive in your heart and mind!

You have to put fear in the corner and or put it aside. And be willing to stand out to TRULY come alive!!!

10/05/2024

Every animal in the animal kingdom has a unique way of healing to assist humans in their healing journey. Horses are exceptional therapy animals due to their heightened senses, particularly their awareness of non-verbal cues and energy. A horse may respond by being reluctant to work with someone who may be carrying anger or fear. A horse’s keen sense of perception allows them to respond to human emotions and intentions. A horse’s response often shows up in their body language which we can read and interpret and give feedback to the client in the moment. It has been proven that working in close proximity to a horse can reduce our heart rate, it can reduce blood pressure, it can reduce the amount of cortisol (stress hormones) and it can also cause the feel-good endorphins to increase in us. So, by just being around horses, our moods are elevated and there is a physiological reason for that. People become attuned to the heart resonance of the horses. Humans have known about the healing power of being around horses since 400 BC, when Hippocrates, the Greek father of medicine, lauded its benefits. Today, occupational therapists prescribe time with horses to patients with autism and cerebral palsy; it’s also been useful for veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder. 🥰These days more people are tapping into the natural world’s healing powers. ✨

10/04/2024

I urge you to take a hard look within and see if the life you’re living is truly the one that you’re here to live..

Or whether you’ve allowed for habit, comfort and “good enough” to sedate you into thinking you’re better off by not breaking the cocoon you’ve built around you.

If you ask yourself “Is there all there is to my life” on a constant basis..

or the things, accomplishments and even relationships you have feel empty (even though you “should appreciate and be grateful” for what you have)..

Chances are that your heart has become infected with numbness.

And the life within you is being suffocated.

A wise man once said “When death comes, make sure it finds you alive.”

Most men die while they’re sill awake.

There’s no greater tragedy.

10/01/2024

Did you know that if you have a pacemaker, you can include it in your Will to be donated to a dog in need after you pass away? Although pacemakers cannot be used for another human, they can help dogs with heart problems and potentially save their lives. You can arrange for the pacemaker to be sent to a vet of your choice. Many pacemakers are simply thrown away, and dogs may die because people do not know about this option. Donating the pacemaker can even save the dog's owner the cost of a new one, which can sometimes make a crucial difference in affording life-saving treatment.

10/01/2024

Something to think about….as many near-death experiencers have pointed out, in heaven there are no divisions, no sects, no religions, there is only LOVE! And thats why I love NDE’s and doula work. YOUTUBE NDE’s for more understanding to other experiences or stay closed minded to just your own. 🤷🏽‍♀️