03/31/2026
Adjusting to the new role as big brother or sister and the new family dynamics of having a newborn in the home can be challenging for kids. This advice may seem a little silly, but it can help younger kids/toddlers with the adjustment. By making a point to verbalize that you are prioritizing their needs sometimes helps them realize and remember that they are still important and their needs are important to you.
Other strategies to help the transition:
- carving out one on one time with the older sibling when the baby is not present. It doesn't have to be long, 5 meaningful minutes will go a long way.
-keeping the older child's routine as consistent as possible (bedtime, school/daycare, etc)
-involving the older sibling in age appropriate tasks so that they are part of the process and not always left to observe
There are some other tricks and strategies I've recommended with families based on the specific family dynamics and temperament of the older sibling, so it's not always one size fits all.
What are some strategies that have worked for your family?