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Licensed Therapist & Clini-Coach, Tony Boer — Helping couples for over 15 years in their marriages.

08/07/2025

‘My spouse doesn’t listen to me.’
It’s one of the most common struggles in marriage — and it can feel defeating. But God’s Word reminds us that “a gentle answer turns away wrath” (Proverbs 15:1).
This short clip from .marriagecast reveals how to invite your spouse into Spirit-led communication — the kind that builds, not breaks.
If you’re seeking a marriage rooted in Christ and real connection, this is for you.
🙏 Watch, share, and follow .marriagecast for biblical insight and practical wisdom.

08/04/2025

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07/28/2025

tool of the week:
Simply say “I forgive you” instead of lecturing your spouse.

It can be so easy to want to make your spouse SEE what it was that they did wrong but how often does this actually work!? The fight could continue on to unhealthy lengths using this strategy!

Instead, try saying just three words.

I forgive you.

And look at the difference it will make in your communication!

07/25/2025

Are you running at the right pace in your marriage!.

07/22/2025

I think we all saw these unfortunate events unfurl in the news and on social media…

But what can we do to recover practically if our marriage is experiencing an affair?

I’m offering a new course on my website (www.tonyboer.com) where you can not only repair your relationship but start off completely new and HEALTHY!
No, this isn’t going to be easy… but your relationship deserves it!

Go to www.tonyboer.com today and start your affair repair course today!

07/18/2025

Throwback!

It really is as simple as that. Talk about the small stuff! You’ll learn so much more about your partner than you realize!

Check out celebrate.marriagecast and don’t be afraid to dive back into the earlier episodes!

07/09/2025

Let’s talk about strengthening newlywed communication!

Often times, it’s in this beginning part of marriage where communication is still new, and figuring out how to communicate with your spouse effectively can be tough!

You might be living together for the first time, tackling household tasks together, learning how they like to spend their free time, what irritates them, how they like to do things that might be different than you. It’s all new!

Collecting the tools that the START of your marriage on how to respect each other, learn from each other, and communicate on anything and everything is the strong foundation that all marriages need… so why start when you’re already 25 years in!?

Check out the episode over at .marriagecast and leave a comment telling us something you learned in the start of your marriage!

07/05/2025

When you have a spouse that is facing the many struggles of addiction, what gets them to that place where they want to change? What can you do to help get things going in that direction? Check out .marriagecast podcast episode where we talk about facing the struggles of addiction in marriage and the steps you can take to come out of it!

06/24/2025

tool of the week: Simply say “I’m sorry” when you’re fighting with your spouse!

This may seem pretty obvious… (or not if you think it’s your spouse who should be saying sorry!)

But taking a moment to step back from an argument, no matter how you feel and speaking the words “I’m sorry” to your spouse can totally push the reset button on your fight!
This will give both of you the chance to communicate better!

Give it a try and see how it goes!

06/19/2025

Date night question of the week: What helps you feel most loved by me? ❤️

This could be answered in so many different ways! Is it something you do that makes your partner feel that love? Something they say? Let’s talk about it!

06/17/2025

When we talk to couples in therapy that have a partner struggling with addiction, one of the biggest breakthroughs we can see is when the ultimatum is brought to them very plainly.

If you choose not to fight this addiction you will loose your spouse.

Thos can be really tough for them to hear, but often times it is the wake up call needed to get things moving in the right direction. Have a listen to the full episode over at .marriagecast and leave a comment if you have any thoughts regarding relationships and addiction. We would love to hear it!

06/16/2025

tool of the week: Volunteer to help your partner with a chore they normally do alone!

This could look like working on the dishes side by side, folding the laundry together, working on the yard, or even washing the car!
Be intentional with this time and talk with your spouse! Who knows… this could turn into a mini date!

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