04/08/2026
✨ DBT Skill Spotlight: DEAR MAN ✨
Struggle with asking for what you need or setting boundaries?
DBT’s DEAR MAN skill is a powerful tool for effective communication and self-respect. 💛
🗣️ D — Describe
Stick to the facts of the situation.
💬 E — Express
Share how you feel using “I” statements.
🎯 A — Assert
Ask clearly for what you want (or say no).
🌟 R — Reinforce
Explain the positive outcomes of respecting your request.
🧘 M — Mindful
Stay focused — don’t get pulled off track.
💿 A — Appear confident
Body language and tone matter.
🤝 N — Negotiate
Be willing to compromise when appropriate.
DEAR MAN reminds us:
Your needs matter, and you can communicate them with confidence.