The Becoming Agency

The Becoming Agency Counseling, Coaching, & Consulting "Journeying with people in unbecoming to become”

🌿 Introducing Our New Look: The Becoming AgencyTransformation has a new face.Our refreshed logo represents what we stand...
11/02/2025

🌿 Introducing Our New Look: The Becoming Agency

Transformation has a new face.
Our refreshed logo represents what we stand for — growth, healing, and living securely.

💙 Blue symbolizes trust, calm, and clarity — the safety needed for transformation.
💚 Green embodies healing, renewal, and balance — the essence of becoming whole.

Together, they reflect our mission:
“Journeying with People in Unbecoming to Become.”

At The Becoming Agency, we walk with you through the process of unlearning, healing, and learning to lead life securely — personally, professionally, and spiritually.

🍂 Join Dr. Robin Duncan, PhD, Certified Life Coach, for an 8-week group life coaching experience — “Forgiving What You C...
10/29/2025

🍂 Join Dr. Robin Duncan, PhD, Certified Life Coach, for an 8-week group life coaching experience — “Forgiving What You Can’t Forget.”
Sessions meet every Monday, Nov. 10 – Dec. 29, from 7:00–8:30 PM at The Becoming Agency (3409 W. 47th St., Ste. 102).
Come ready to heal, release, and grow in a supportive community — scan the QR code for more information or click link https://rdduncaninstitute.com/the-forgiving-group

Why Saying “No” Isn’t Selfish 🚫💛So many of us know boundaries matter—yet still struggle to set them. Often, it’s fear th...
10/18/2025

Why Saying “No” Isn’t Selfish 🚫💛
So many of us know boundaries matter—yet still struggle to set them. Often, it’s fear that drives our hesitation:
“What if they reject me?” “What if I disappoint them?”

But learning to say no from a place of love, not fear, is an act of emotional maturity.
✨ “Saying ‘no’ protects my values.”
✨ It creates space for your bigger “yes.”
✨ It allows your peace, priorities, and purpose to align.

Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re healthy limits that honor who you are and what matters most.

Ready to start setting boundaries in real life?
👉 Visit www.thebecomingagency.com
to book your first counseling session today.








10/16/2025

“My God, my God, why have You forsaken me?” 💔
We’ve all felt that deep ache of abandonment — not just physical, but emotional. The loneliness. The silence. The pain that makes us question if God still sees us.

But like the psalmist in Psalm 22, hope begins when we remember.
Remember how God showed up before.
Remember that He’s still working behind the scenes, even when we can’t see it.
That remembrance activates faith — and faith awakens hope. 🌤️

You are not abandoned. You are not forgotten.
Let this be your reminder that God’s promises still stand:
“Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” 🙏

💛 Ready to start healing from the pain of abandonment and rediscover your peace?
👉 Visit www.thebecomingagency.com
to schedule your first session today.








Slow mornings are powerful medicine. 🌅 Research shows cortisol—the “stress hormone”—spikes 30-45 minutes after you wake ...
10/14/2025

Slow mornings are powerful medicine. 🌅

Research shows cortisol—the “stress hormone”—spikes 30-45 minutes after you wake up. If you jump straight from bed to inbox, that surge sticks with you all day. Instead, give yourself a 30-minute buffer: sip water, breathe deep, jot an intention, simply be. You’ll feel the difference in clearer focus, steadier mood, and stronger self-control.

Ready to fine-tune a routine that calms your nervous system and kick-starts real change?

Schedule your first therapy session with The Becoming Agency today ➡️

www.TheBecomingAgency.com

10/14/2025

When parents seek emotional reassurance from their children, the roles quietly reverse. 💔

Anxious-attached parents may turn to their child for comfort, saying things like “You’re the only one who understands me.”

It can feel loving — but it places an emotional weight on the child far beyond their years.

Over time, that child learns to suppress their own needs to protect the parent’s feelings. They may skip friendships, opportunities, even college plans — all to keep their parent “okay.”

Healing begins when parents find adult sources of support, not emotional reliance on their children.

Becoming secure means building community, seeking therapy, and allowing your child to just be a child again. 💛

👉 Visit www.thebecomingagency.com
to schedule your first session and begin your own healing journey today.

10/10/2025

When emotions run high, anxious attachment can take the driver’s seat. 🚗💭
Parents with anxious attachment often overreact to misbehavior — yelling, guilt-tripping, or saying things like, “After all I’ve done for you…”
It’s not out of anger — it’s out of fear. Fear of losing control. Fear of losing connection.

But this pattern teaches children to feel responsible for their parent’s emotions — creating guilt and anxiety that can follow them into adulthood.

Healing starts when we parent from security, not fear.
✨ Teach through understanding.
✨ Correct through connection.
✨ Grow together through collaboration.

Ready to break the cycle and build a healthier bond?
👉 Visit www.thebecomingagency.com
to schedule your first session today.








We are glad to partner with Bloom Mental Health and Wellness
10/09/2025

We are glad to partner with Bloom Mental Health and Wellness

10/08/2025

When a parent struggles with anxious attachment, it often shows up in how they connect with their child.

Hovering, overprotecting, or constantly checking in may feel like love — but it can also limit your child’s sense of independence. Over time, this can lead to codependency or anxious tendencies in adulthood.

Healing starts with awareness. 💛
Give space where you’ve been hovering.
Allow independence where you’ve been controlling.
This is how both parent and child move toward secure attachment.

Ready to start that journey of change?
👉 Visit www.thebecomingagency.com
to schedule your first session today!








09/25/2025

🚨 Success doesn’t always equal confidence.
Many people may look accomplished on the outside but still struggle with self-confidence on the inside. When that happens, we start seeking validation from others—praise, approval, or acceptance—to feel worthy.

But here’s the truth: 👉 “If you live by the praises of people, you’ll die by the praises of people.”

Relying on external validation often leads to people-pleasing and can compromise your values and core beliefs. Real growth comes from building self-confidence within yourself. 💡

💬 Are you ready to stop chasing approval and start embracing your true worth? The Becoming Agency can help you build lasting confidence and align with your authentic self.

🔗 Go to www.TheBecomingAgency.com to schedule your first session.

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3409 W 47th Street, Suite 102
Sioux Falls, SD
57106

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Monday 8am - 7pm
Tuesday 8am - 7pm
Wednesday 8am - 5pm
Thursday 8am - 5pm
Friday 8am - 12am

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