Three Points Relationships

09/23/2024

👋 Meet the Facilitators! All workshop presenters are Certified Fair Play Method Facilitators with years of experience helping families.

Join us on October 5th for a transformative workshop making Fair Play work for YOU!

🌟Kate Engler, LMFT, CST - specialization in couples and relationship therapy
🌟Andrea Fullerton, LCSW, PMH-C, - specialization in perinatal and parental mental health; facilitator, peer group for new moms
🌟Nikki Goldwater, LCSW, R-PLC - specializion in perinatal mental health, the transition to parenthood, parents of medically complex children and parental leave coaching
🌟Alison Jamison - Owner Alison Jamison Coaching, Certified Life and Weightloss Coach, specialization in relationship and identity coaching
🌟Cara Pollard - Owner Cara Pollard Coaching, PCI® Certified Parent Coach, and Executive Coach
🌟Lori Sugarman-Li, Coach, Speaker, Children's Book Author - dedicated to fostering powerful conversations within families, encouraging them to contemplate how they care for one another and their shared space

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09/04/2024

We’ve spent the last couple of weeks overcoming our toxic time messages and strategizing how to get started with Fair Play. Sometimes that little bit of knowledge is all it takes to make Fair Play work for you.

And other times - you want some more help.

Join me and 5 additional Fair Play Facilitators for an Exclusive Workshop: Making Fair Play Work for You!

This workshop is designed to help you and your partner achieve a more equitable division of labor at home, so you can focus on what truly matters. Whether you're juggling a demanding career, parenting, or personal projects, we’ll guide you through practical strategies to create a balanced and joyful home environment.

In This Workshop, You’ll Learn How To:

✅ Identify and overcome the common sticking points when implementing Fair Play

✅ Develop problem-solving skills to resolve your specific issues related to the method

✅ Communicate effectively with your partner to achieve lasting change

✅ Connect with others using Fair Play

Why This Workshop Matters:

Fair Play isn’t just about splitting chores—it’s about reclaiming your time, reducing resentment, and fostering a stronger partnership. Imagine a home life where tasks are shared fairly, and everyone feels valued and supported. That’s the power of Fair Play, and we're here to help you make it a reality.

You can join us for a full day or half-day. Check out the agenda to choose what will work for you.

🗓️ Date: Sat, Oct 5, 2024

⏰ Time: 9am-5pm (or for half the day)

📍 Location: Heartwood Center, 1818 Dempster St, Evanston, IL 60202

🎟️ Seats are Limited! Secure your spot now and start transforming your home life.

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08/19/2024

New workshop! Don't miss the early bird discount. Signup before 9/5! Get more info and register with the LINK IN COMMENTS.

03/13/2024

We live in a world that prefers black and white options for relationships. The ridiculous thing is that anyone who has ever been a relationship—especially one of the long-term variety—knows they are 100% not clear cut. Ever.

I am so excited to discuss creative relationship solutions this weekend at the Illinois Association for Marriage and Family Therapy conference!

IAMFT Annual Conference Presenter Spotlight: Discover more about our outstanding presenters this year! Please visit www.iamft.org for more information.

Beyond the Binary of Together or Apart: Creative Relationship Solutions.

Learn how to help clients understand that relationship structures change over time; guide them in planning for/adapting to this evolution; explore creative relationship solutions and assess the suitability of these options based on clients’ unique circumstances, values, and goals.

Kate Engler is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT certified s*x therapist, and Fair Play Method facilitator. Her private practice, Three Points Relationships, specializes in working with individual adults and couples with a primary focus on romantic relationships. She is currently working on a book about Gen X relationships.

02/12/2024

Why on earth would anyone choose a partner that does the things we hate most? Couldn’t we all just choose someone that doesn’t p**s us off? Logic would say, “Yes, of course!” However, we all know, logic rarely plays a role in matters of the ❤️.

Most of us actually choose someone that specifically pushes our most sensitive buttons. 😕

Are we all just a bit sadistic? No! (Well, I mean, maybe you are but that's another discussion.)

When we get interested in a new partner, what we think is chemistry is usually a much more complicated, unconscious process at work. 🧐

While it can show up as button-pushing and frustration, understanding the process can actually lead to deeply satisfying and connected relationships.

WANT TO LEARN MORE? 🔏Click the link in the comments below to learn about our new workshop, RELATIONSHIP BASICS: WHAT WE SHOULD HAVE BEEN TAUGHT BUT WEREN'T

01/23/2024

Join us for our new workshop: Relationship Basics! Link to registration in comments.