11/27/2025
Breaking a Cycle Is Liberating and Heartbreaking
As an Earth Angel and a cycle breaker, you are a highly sensitive, highly intuitive soul who knows youâre here on a mission. You understand that every experience carries a lesson, every wound holds wisdom, and peace always waits on the other side of pain.
This fall, I made a commitment both to myself and to my Angelic Cycle Breaker students, to break a cycle alongside them.
The cycle that revealed itself was codependency, with the tendrils of rescuing, enabling, and losing myself in someone elseâs chaos.
Although I had experienced this pattern with my mom and my brother, both now on the Other Side, I didnât realize how deeply it was still operating until it showed up again in a 30-year friendship. The truth was undeniable: despite my boundaries, despite my clarity, despite my devotion, I was still propping him up⌠and keeping the cycle alive.
One of the hardest things you will ever do is walk away from someone who is on the brink of life and death.
But that is exactly what I had to do.
Even with my best effort and my clearest boundaries, I could feel myself enabling him to stay stuck, stay addicted, and avoid the deeper, vulnerable, brave work of facing the trauma underneath it all. My angels were clear: Let him go to his soul path. For his highest good. And for your liberation.
Ending a karmic pattern and burning a 30-year bond is not for the faint of heart.
It is not pretty.
It is not easy.
And yet, when I finally released him and the cycle, I felt a profound internal freedom.
I also felt heartbreak. Heartbreak for the friendship. Heartbreak for the man he was. Heartbreak for the loss of his clarity, his stability, and the version of him I spent decades trying to support.
All of this unfolded inside the birthday, holiday portal, adding layers of intensity to an already emotional initiation. Through it all, I chose to keep sending love, keep sending prayers, keep letting go every time a part of me wanted to fix, manage, rescue, or control. And I chose, fiercely, to focus on gratitude, for every blessing, every miracle, every moment of grace in my own life.
If youâve been close to someone at rock bottom, you know the spiritual weight of that role. You know the ache, the courage, and the heartbreak that comes with setting them free.
One of the gems emerging from this experience is simple but potent:
Be grateful for every single gift, every single blessing, and every single miracle in your life.
Nothing is promised. Everything is sacred.
And if you are reading this, please know, I am grateful for you, too. Happy Thanksgiving! Love Jill
CTA: If youâre ready to break your cycleâŚ
If youâre struggling with codependency, rescuing, enabling, or any painful pattern that keeps repeating, and youâre ready to finally dissolve it, I invite you to schedule a free Angelic Pain Relief Consult.
In this sacred hour together, you will:
Discover what your pain is really about (itâs often not what you think)
Receive the angelic perspective of your pain, which brings instant relief
Get your personalized fuel for dissolving the pattern
Receive a powerful Archangel who will walk by your side through your healing
And if weâre a good fit, Iâll share the details of my private coaching program
Hereâs the link to set up your free consult:
https://angeljill44.wufoo.com/forms/zx3qcg81gh35px/