05/09/2024
š§š¶ If youāve ever worried about how your child will take to a new baby joining the family- youāre not alone. This is often a concern parents have with adding a sibling into the picture.
Thankfully, thereās books for that! Books are a great way to connect with your child and explore those ideas and feelings about adding a baby. I have read quite a few, but these two are my favorites.
š āYou Were the Firstā by Patricia MacLachlan describes all of the firsts that parents typically experience with their first born. The first one to laugh at the dog, put their toes in the sand at the beach, the first to crawl and sleep in the special bassinet. It mentions that there may come a time when other babies experience those things too, but they will always be the first.
I think this beautiful book does a great job reminding your child that they will always hold a special place as the āfirstā and it allows them to be proud of those moments but make space for others to come along and experience things too.
š āDarcy and Gran Donāt Like Babiesā by Jane Cutler may sound counterintuitive, however, I think itās a great opportunity to explore the idea that you may not be happy about someone else coming into the family. In this book Darcy becomes a big sister and says she doesnāt like the baby⦠and Gran agrees with her!! The two of them adventure through the day and realize all of the great things Darcy is able to do because sheās older (like swing or the big slide) and Darcy appreciates that she has someone to confide in and understand her while other adults tell her, āyes you do like the babyā. By the end you get to see both Darcy and Gran reshape their thoughts a little bit towards enjoying the baby- but this is a great book for big siblings who are having a harder time adjusting!
Have you ever read these books? Or what are your favorite sibling books? Iād love to know!