11/15/2025
The holidays have a way of amplifying loss. When we gather around the Thanksgiving table, the empty chair can sometimes feel heavier than all the love in the room. If you are navigating this season without a loved one, please know that grief does not take a holiday, and you don't have to hide it.
It's natural to feel pressure to be "joyful" during the holidays, but true healing requires making space for all your feelings—including the sadness, the ache of memory, or the confusion of navigating a new normal.
You have permission this year to:
Change the Tradition: If a specific ritual feels too painful this year, it's okay to do something different. New traditions can be created to honor the past while protecting your present self.
Acknowledge the Absence: Don't be afraid to speak their name or share a warm memory. Trying to ignore the void often makes it feel bigger. Acknowledging the loss is acknowledging the love that was there.
Give Yourself an Exit Plan: Decide ahead of time that you can leave an event early, step outside for a few minutes, or retreat to a quiet room without explanation. Self-care is not rude; it's necessary.
Your journey of grief is welcome here. This Thanksgiving, be gentle with yourself, and remember that making space for remembrance is making space for love.
If the holidays are making your grief feel overwhelming, we are here to support you. Contact us for a free 15-minute consultation.