12/26/2025
Most people don’t put off trauma therapy because they don’t want to heal. They wait because they’re hoping things will feel steadier before opening up.
Traumatic events don’t create readiness. They teach you to keep going quietly, while carrying a heavy load for so long.
If you feel drained or uncertain, it doesn't mean you failed. Your mind and body have been working hard to survive.
Trauma-focused therapy isn’t about forcing yourself to relive the past. It’s about gently unpacking the heavy load, knowing you're not alone and taking steps to no longer be haunted by your past.
With trauma-focused therapy, it’s okay to feel uncertain and skeptical. And it’s okay to try a deeper approach that can clear a path forward.
If you’re curious about trauma therapy that goes beyond coping, explore my blog to learn more: www.melissagoldsmithphd.org/ptsd-blog/