04/20/2026
“Have you changed as a therapist now that you’re a mom?” I get that question a lot. Parenthood changes you, yes. Was I a good therapist before Olive? Yes, I think so. Am I a better therapist now? Not sure… probably not. The recommendations are the same. The connection with my clients is the same. The investment and the care is the same. What’s different? I really get that sometimes- often, even- you can do everything “right”… and it doesn’t matter. I understand differently the drain, the low energy, the constant “on” and the multiple hats. Is that needed to be a good therapist? I truly believe no. Does it change the depth in how you can understand or join with the parents you work with? Sure. Am I more relatable and my clients more relatable to me now? Yes. Did I have more energy, more pep, more availability prior to becoming mom? Sure did! Anyway… Olive turned two yesterday and I’m in my thoughts. Thanks for reading my jumbled, honest thoughts about being a therapist post parenthood vs prior. One thing hasn’t changed… my love for the work I do. At the end of the day- that’s always the most important factor behind what makes a great therapist, IMHO. I just now have this really cool two year old bestie along side me and Charlie💜 - Michele