Birth & Lactation Connection

Birth & Lactation Connection IBCLCs and nurses. 143 total years experience in healthcare. Board Certified. Home & Virtual visits!

Mom. Mommy. Grammy. Nana. GG. Granny. 💖Much of our identity as moms springs from the women in our world who mother, rais...
11/20/2025

Mom. Mommy. Grammy. Nana. GG. Granny. 💖

Much of our identity as moms springs from the women in our world who mother, raise, love, encourage and nurture us.

They didn’t always do it perfectly in the past - and we won’t do things perfectly in the future either…

But GRACE allows us to live and grow today from lessons learned along the way.

Let’s be patient with ourselves as we do our best in life and parenting. Let’s trust the Giver of Life to guide us in our journey. May we experience full hearts of gratitude for all our blessings! ♥️

Contact us for breastfeeding support!
We are here for you. 💙 BLCbaby.com 💙

Tongue Tie is not a fad! Let’s talk about actual anatomy. Find someone who is well trained in assessment and rehabilitat...
11/14/2025

Tongue Tie is not a fad! Let’s talk about actual anatomy. Find someone who is well trained in assessment and rehabilitation. Collaboration and teamwork is key to success! Thanks Bobby Ghaheri MD for all your efforts to educate 🙂
www.BLCbaby.com 💙

“Tongue tie” Actually Describes a Medical Condition

What I always find curious is how many parents tell me that “they didn’t know tongue tie was an actual thing” - the implication is that they thought it was a figure of speech and not an actual medical condition. My fear is that many doctors don’t know it’s a real thing either (hence the insinuation that tongue tie as a medical condition is some “fad” practiced by doctors just looking for a quick buck or something).

Let’s start with an analogy. There is a medical condition called a trigger finger, where a tendon leading to the finger is tethered and the finger is bent in. It’s not a perfect analogy, as trigger finger is acquired over time whereas tongue tie is congenital, but the concept is similar - there is an actual anatomical restriction to the movement of a muscle that needs to be treated if we want that structure to work again.

When it comes to tongue tie, it’s important for everyone (even doctors) to understand that the description is accurate - the tongue (well, part of it) is ACTUALLY tied. For real - it’s tied. That’s the real underlying pathophysiology here. It’s not just a band that is holding the tongue down that, if cut, magically allows the tongue to spring into action. A frenulum that is a tie (one that actually restricts) prevents the actual motion of the tongue by grabbing on to and holding a very specific muscle. That muscle is the genioglossus muscle. It’s the muscle depicted in the picture above.

There are actually 2 genioglossus muscle bellies, a left and a right. Imagine a handheld fan (the foldable kind) - the muscle starts by attaching on the inside of the jaw in the mid-portion, and then like a deployed fan, it is a primary determinant in two motions - protruding the tongue and elevating the tongue. If you’ve read my previous posts, you would know that it is this latter motion (elevation) that is the most important for infant suction generation. If the tongue isn’t allowed to move up, then it cannot form a seal with the breast/palate. If there’s no seal, then there’s no suction. This forces the baby to compensate and that is where the dominos start to fall.

Tongue tie isn’t a fad. Tongue tie isn’t “controversial”. If a doctor or lactation consultant says they “don’t believe” in tongue tie, then you should consider getting an opinion from someone who doesn’t inject beliefs about actual anatomy.

Wow! 🤩 💙
11/04/2025

Wow! 🤩 💙

breastfeeding mama whales are amazing !

whale mamas literally nurse their babies in the ocean, no bottles. no breaks. no latch drama.

their milk is thick like cream cheese, nearly 50% fat, so it clings underwater without losing a drop.

their babies gain up to 200 pounds a day.
just from milk.
just from their mama.

no sleep training. no feeding schedules.
just instinct, connection, and deep-sea cuddles.

i bet no one’s asking her when she’s moving her baby to seal milk 🫠🫠
Credit The Breastmilk Queen - Amy McGlade
https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=1385328442955573&set=a.592502978904794

Contact us for assistance with SOLID FOODS! 😋www.BLCbaby.com
10/30/2025

Contact us for assistance with SOLID FOODS! 😋
www.BLCbaby.com

Thinking about starting SOLID foods for your baby??

This healthy bouncing baby boy 💙 is 6 MONTHS old!
He is showing signs of readiness and will begin enjoying solid foods very soon!

He has been exclusively breast-fed and is thriving from mother’s milk. Mother had many challenges along the way, but together, we persevered and look at him now!!

We are happy to help you in this process. We advise a virtual or in person visit with you when baby is about five months of age. If you missed that window of time, it’s not too late to contact us.

No need to rush solid food. (Despite what your pediatrician and family might say, remember we are the feeding experts.)

Continue to provide your breastmilk as long as possible. Remember that solid food is only complementing your amazing breastmilk 💕

I wonder if this little man will try pumpkin or squash today? HAPPY FALL Y’ALL 🍁 🎃 🍂

Check out our website to contact us! We can’t wait to connect with you and your baby.
💙 www.BLCbaby.com

We remember. 😢 Only God understands the depth of your pain. 🙏🏻He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psal...
10/16/2025

We remember. 😢
Only God understands the depth of your pain. 🙏🏻

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Psalm 147:3 ♥️

Did you know it’s International Baby Wearing week?So many benefits 💕 including bonding and attachment, less crying, free...
10/06/2025

Did you know it’s International Baby Wearing week?

So many benefits 💕 including bonding and attachment, less crying, freedom of movement…

Baby wearing encourages responsive feeding and enhances infant brain development! 🧠 who knew?!

Avoid outward facing carriers until 6 months.
Find a local baby wearing community for assistance in learning all the ins and outs of safe baby wearing 💙

💙 www.blcbaby.com

BREASTFEEDING AN ADOPTED BABY? Yes! This sweet little guy was adopted into a loving family and this AMAZING MOMMA is bre...
10/01/2025

BREASTFEEDING AN ADOPTED BABY? Yes!
This sweet little guy was adopted into a loving family and this AMAZING MOMMA is breastfeeding and pumping milk for him! Yay!! ♥️ What a privilege to assist them in their feeding journey!

www.blcbaby.com 💙

Come see Heidi tomorrow! Group starts at 10am!
09/16/2025

Come see Heidi tomorrow! Group starts at 10am!

Don’t miss Moms Group this Wednesday at the Plymouth LifePlex!

Come connect and recharge with snacks and conversations with other moms. 🍃

This is what a content, satisfied baby looks like! 💙Dear Moms, There are so many challenges in breast-feeding. It’s OK t...
08/19/2025

This is what a content, satisfied baby looks like! 💙

Dear Moms, There are so many challenges in breast-feeding. It’s OK to supplement with bottles and formula if needed!! We are here to help guide you in your specific journey. ☺️

Pumping. Breast-feeding. Bottle feeding. 🍼
It’s all a labor of LOVE! ♥️

There are often unavoidable hiccups that come along. Trust your momma heart and trust your baby to teach you the way. Parenting is a long road. You got this!

We would love to help you with tips and advice.

Contact us for professional feeding assistance.
www.BLCbaby.com 💙

08/04/2025

Gotta love a clean LACTATION ROOM while traveling through Kentucky! Stopped at the Corvette Museum in Bowling Green and ...
08/04/2025

Gotta love a clean LACTATION ROOM while traveling through Kentucky! Stopped at the Corvette Museum in Bowling Green and was pleased to see this lovely room for mothers. Staff was friendly, kind and speedy (like a race car 😉) to open it up for my investigation. 🏎️ 😃

It’s World Breastfeeding Week 2025 🤱🏻💖Contact us today for assistance in your BF journey. We provide prenatal home visit...
08/01/2025

It’s World Breastfeeding Week 2025 🤱🏻💖
Contact us today for assistance in your BF journey.

We provide prenatal home visits as well as home check ups any time during the duration of breastfeeding your child. Some insurance accepted.
www.BLCbaby.com 💙

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