11/19/2025
Have you ever tried on a pair of pants and suddenly felt like your whole life — your body, your worth, your choices — was on trial in a fluorescent-lit dressing room?
You might be playing the comparison game (or the “I’ll-be-happy-when-I-fit-into-that-size” trap) and blaming yourself for a fit problem that’s actually cultural, hormonal, and—yes—even garment-design related.
Stop beating yourself up in a tiny changing-room mirror. This episode exposes how monthly cycles, postpartum bodies, cultural conditioning, and crappy clothing sizing team up to make women feel smaller — and shows how to respond with curiosity, compassion, and practical wardrobe + body wisdom instead.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
✨ Why your pants size can change week-to-week (hello, cycle, dampness, and water retention) and how to pick the “right” day to try things on so you don’t sabotage yourself.
✨ How postpartum hormone shifts, breastfeeding, and body set-points affect weight, shape, and how your clothes hang — plus why “bounce back” timelines are nonsense.
✨ Practical styling hacks for short-torso, curvy, or changing bodies (what actually works: low-rise crisscross waists, fit-for-your-ass jeans, and giving yourself different lighting + distance to judge outfits).
✨ A kinder mental reframe: stop shrinking to fit a patriarchal ideal — take up space, prioritize function and joy, and choose clothes that support your life (not punish it).
If a pair of pants can trigger a re-run of every body-shaming voice you’ve ever heard, this episode is your permission slip to quit apologizing for taking up room — in your clothes, in your life, and on the planet.
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2532765/episodes/18216228
