12/16/2025
In early childhood, it’s easy to focus on what children can do—how many words they say, which skills they’ve mastered, what milestones they’ve reached. But learning doesn’t begin with checklists. It begins with connection.
Engagement is the foundation for all development. Before children learn to talk, problem-solve, or regulate their emotions, they learn through shared moments of joy—being silly together, locking eyes during play, laughing, and feeling truly seen. These moments tell a child: I am safe. I am connected. I belong.
When we prioritize joy and engagement, skills naturally follow. Language grows from shared attention. Regulation develops through co-regulation. Confidence blooms when children feel delighted in—not pressured to perform.
So slow down. Follow their lead. Share the joy. Those deep, connected moments are not extra—they are essential, and they shape development for a lifetime. 💛