09/28/2025
Many of us hold onto a cultural myth—largely perpetuated by companies and people trying to sell us products and services—that if we work hard enough, make all the right choices, and heal enough, we'll finally "arrive."
We'll arrive at ultimate fulfillment.
We'll arrive at permanent happiness.
We'll arrive at stability: everything going right.
This myth leaves many of us feel like we're failing —like we’re doing it "wrong"—when we're in seasons of change and transition.
Like we "should have it figured out by now."
Like we shouldn't be feeling disoriented. Confused.
Like our values, beliefs, and desires shouldn’t be in flux.
It’s a myth, y’all. There's no arrival. There's no destination. There's just seasons of sameness, and seasons of change. Seasons of joy, and seasons of sorrow. Seasons of confidence, and seasons of lostness.
It’s so liberating—so incredibly freeing—to realize that the stability and “arrival” we run ourselves into the ground chasing is a myth.
Change, uncertainty, and transition is the nature of life. The goal isn’t to overcome change. The goal is to learn to make peace with change—to learn how to ride with it. Find meaning in it. Adapt to it. Grow within it.
I work with clients who are outgrowing their old lives, helping them journey from doubt and uncertainty to clarity, self-trust, and a new chapter that is radically alive. Learn more about working with me at haileymagee.com/private-coaching
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