01/01/2026
i had a revelation in the shower and this is it. instead of trying to figure out what a person needs- do they want me to problem solve with them? do they want to vent and have me listen? do they want to have some alone time to process? do they just need a good, long hug? i’ve decided it’s high time that i just ask people what they need. let’s me off the hook for codependent, fixing. rescuing behaviors and allows the person i’m communicating with to have some agency and get their needs met. win-win. i am diggin’ it. 🩵🧡💜
