04/01/2026
A year ago, I followed a quiet but persistent nudge…
I started reaching out to libraries across Connecticut asking if I could offer a free talk on the impact of addiction on families and communities.
In the photo above is Cynthia, the first librarian to say yes to bringing this conversation to Hagaman Memorial Library in East Haven CT.
Cynthia, I’m so grateful for you. 💛
Your willingness to open that door didn’t just create one event - it helped spark something much bigger…
A movement to bring family recovery out of the shadows and into the light.
After that first talk, she shared kind words about the experience and connected me with other librarians.
And one by one, more doors opened.
I spent the next several months traveling across the state, speaking in community spaces. We made sure we invited not just families impacted by addiction, but also teachers, first responders, professionals, and neighbors into the conversation.
Because I knew something early on:
If we made this only about families, most wouldn’t come.
Not because they don’t need support, but because of the stigma and shame that still surrounds addiction.
And that’s the heartbreaking part…
So many people are struggling quietly. Carrying this alone.
Not knowing where it’s safe to talk about it.
And yes… attendance was often small.
This is a hard topic.
But inside those rooms? The conversations were powerful.
People opened up. Stories were shared.
And many felt seen and heard for the first time.
That experience deepened my commitment to this work - and showed me just how much these conversations are needed.
It also showed me something important:
Traveling all across the state offering these talks at no cost, while meaningful, was not sustainable.
If this work is going to continue and reach more people, it has to be supported.
So I’m now offering these talks and trainings as part of my work.
I bring these conversations to:
• Treatment providers & healthcare teams
• Schools & educators
• Community groups & faith organizations
• Libraries & public spaces
Because the truth is…
The way we talk about addiction matters.
The language we use can either create connection, or reinforce shame and silence.
And we can’t change what we’re unwilling to talk about.
If you’re part of a community or organization that wants to bring this conversation into your space, I’d love to connect.
Visit https://mindfulfamilyrecovery.com/providers to learn more about me and my work and feel free to send me a direct message and I’ll share more details.
