07/04/2025
Navigating July 4th with Chronic Pain and Sensory Sensitivities
As the July 4th celebrations approach, many are gearing up for parades, fireworks, BBQs, and fun in the sun. For those of us living with chronic pain and central nervous system sensitivities, this holiday can bring a different kind of challenge.
Bright flashes of light, booming fireworks, strong scents from grills and smoke—all of these can trigger pain flares, migraines, or sensory overload. What’s festive for some can feel like a minefield to others. And while we don’t want to dampen anyone’s joy, we do hope to raise a little awareness.
If you love someone with fibromyalgia, ME/CFS, or other invisible illnesses, here are a few gentle ways to help:
* Check in with us before making plans.
* Understand if we need to stay home or leave early.
* Consider alternatives like quiet gatherings, daytime get-togethers, or even virtual visits.
* Keep scents and sound levels low if we’re sharing space.
To my fellow chronic illness warriors: you're not alone. It's okay to protect your peace. It's okay to wear noise-canceling headphones or sunglasses indoors. It's okay to say no. You deserve to feel safe and supported—on July 4th and every day.
Let’s all remember that freedom includes the freedom to rest, to adapt, and to care for our bodies in the ways they need most.