01/10/2026
I’ve found myself in multiple online health conversations the 1st wk of 2026. I supposed it's the newly motivated Resolutioners timed with the updated RDA guidelines. For some reason, I took the bait & engaged 🤦♂️. That should be my resolution… stop taking the bait in 2026!
One gentleman aged 40 claimed, “I’m slim, but have a belly. I’m fit & use a 20lb KB”. Another at the age of 41 said, “I’m grossly overweight at 345, but also lean & strong for the weight.” And same guy, “I look like I weigh 270”
Wait, what?? Looks like we’re starting 2026 at delusion.
A male in his 40s with a belly isn’t slim. He’s skinny fat. And if you’re using a 20lb KB as a grownass man, you’re not fit, you’re weak. You’re a skinny fat weak man. Start there. Which is fine. You have to start where you are. Wanting to change is a great new goal and I’m here for it!
At no point in this life does 345lb & “lean” belong in the same sentence. And what does “I look like I weigh 270” even mean? I competed at heavyweight at that weight, no part of me was lean or athletic & I was 20 yrs old (swipe). This guy is comparing himself to other Americans at 345lb to convince himself “at least I’m not THAT fat.” Guess what your heart thinks?
You need to cut the BS & cope if you want change. Results won't follow when you start your “new year new me” from a place of dishonesty. I also used to dress up my weight & health problems with cope & it wasn’t until I could be honest with myself that I could really understand how unhealthy & overfat I was. My original weight loss goal was 240 because I had “such a large frame & so much muscle that any lighter & I’d look small.” Hard LOL Levi 🙄. When I stepped on the scale at 242 I thought, “Hmm, I have a lot of work left to do. I’m way fatter than I thought”
I’m just glad I stopped believing my own BS at 28 & didn’t carry it into my 40s. It’s a lot of intentional training & eating to stay below 210 at 47. But this life is far better than the one I was living nearly 20 years ago. It’s a journey worth taking.